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Source in pic: https://homestead.social/@lily/113878607769958499

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Anecdotally, I've seen several more reports.

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[–] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 69 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Not to sound insensitive, but this is just a social media post quoting another social media post without proof or the ability to verify anything.

[–] stray@pawb.social 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I can't actually imagine what proof of this situation would look like.

[–] koper@feddit.nl 1 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

If this was real it would have affected thousands of people and enough media outlets would have picked it up. This social media post isn't even first hand experience, it's what they allegedly heard from someone else.

[–] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 hours ago

Personally, I would expect more than just a social media post. A second social media post repeating what they read in the first post shouldn't count as evidence or confirmation.

[–] stray@pawb.social 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

I don't think media coverage is a very reliable gauge of truth in a society where the media is controlled by oligarchs. On top of everything that that's been going on, a journalist just got fired for calling Elon Musk a Nazi.

It's also pretty common for marginalized people to relate their problems secondhand because victims don't always want the public eye on them. Yes, victims should go to the authorities, but it's often easier said than done even when the authorities aren't well-known for dismissing victims and/or furthering their abuse.

e: To clarify, I don't think it's true that what the official said is policy; I think that person is probably lying. What I mean is that the incident itself is very plausible, and I have a policy of believing victims if there isn't a good reason not to, especially where it may protect others.

[–] koper@feddit.nl 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I get your point and I certainly don't trust some media to give me all the facts. But there are still plenty of outlets who would have published about this if it happened at any systemic level. That's as close as you can get to proving a negative.

There are many other bigoted things that Trump did do. We should probably discuss that, instead of panickingly telling people to stop changing their registered gender. That's terrible advice given the very limited evidence.

[–] SoupBrick@yiffit.net 14 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Seconded. In these times, evidence is key to avoiding unnecessary panic. It is pretty easy to get with the technology we have in our pockets.

If you experience this, please collect whatever information you can to establish a pattern or keep a historical record.

Edit: I am not discounting this person's experience. Evidence is important when you are trying to get people on board with your cause. Otherwise it might come off as fear mongering.