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This definition of "social" from Oxford is probably most accurate, to how I am using the word:

2. needing companionship and therefore best suited to living in communities. "we are social beings as well as individuals"

I interact with the government but I would hardly call it social. They send me paper asking for taxes, I send them taxes. I vote but that's just filling out a form. It's transactional, the government provides services. In rare cases I do have conversations with people who work for the government but I wouldn't say Im social with the goverment through them. That would be like saying you're social with Ronald McDonald by eating a cheeseburger.

I really would prefer the government leave me alone as much as possible and I think most people feel this way. I don't think people want any organizations bothering them. How many times do you see a sign on someones door reading "solicite please" or see people hanging out down at the DMV talking about rules and regulations, or whatever. Never. People hate going to the DMV, they do it as little as possible.

We're social with friends (usually people we went to school with), family, coworkers, neighbors, acquaintances, and some people we deal with on a regular basis. Small groups, like Dunbar's number small.