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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by spujb@lemmy.cafe to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Lemmy is a worse platform for women than Reddit was EDIT this link is an OLD POST that contains my thesis on the state of lemmy and is not the context of the much more recent comment in the screenshot. sorry for any confusion caused by this juxtaposition, my main goal with having this linked is to expose how nothing has improved

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[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

it’s a tongue in cheek response against a wildly inappropriate comment blaming women for their victimhood. certain people hate to be called out for their violence-enabling rhetoric and that’s precisely what’s happening here.

[–] glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

And yet, based on context clues (upvotes on other replies), we can guess that the downvotes on that comment are based on its tone and not based on its message, which other comments delivered quite successfully. This is the exact definition of cherrypicking.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

“oh noooo the comment defending women for being inexcusably insulted for wanting to preserve a modicum of dignity used sarcasm?”

tone policing behavior like yours makes this site miserable