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[–] DjMeas@lemm.ee 318 points 1 year ago (20 children)

I still wear a mask when going out to stores because I'm immunocompromised due to a kidney transplant. It's ultimately up to me to protect myself from others but what bothers me most lately are people who either laugh or think I'm stupid for still wearing a mask. Some even go as far as to call me out and shame me for it. Can people just mind their own business? I'm not trying to get them to wear a mask so why are they so fixated on me taking mine off?

[–] library_napper@monyet.cc 123 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I still wear a mask because I stand in soldiartiy with folks like you.

Not only do I want to prevent the spread of the disease that could kill immune compromised folks like yourself, but it also helps normalize mask wearing.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 44 points 1 year ago

Finally a fucking cool person picard-pointing

[–] Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago

Sincerely and from the bottom of my immunosuppressed heart: thank you.

Seriously thank you, thank you, thank you.

[–] macabrett@hexbear.net 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

thank you

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[–] Frank@hexbear.net 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ooh spoilering emotes until that bug gets fixed is a good idea.

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[–] Blake@feddit.uk 91 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Genuinely, I think it's probably because they feel a little guilty when they see you wearing one, and that's uncomfortable for people, so they respond by taking it out on you.

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[–] Polar@lemmy.ca 69 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Same. I never stopped wearing a mask because I'm immunocompromised from my lung transplant. People call me names all the time. Even here on Lemmy.

[–] padjakkels@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Who are calling you names? Show them to us!!!

[–] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago

Lemmy Protectors assemble!!

[–] Shortstack@reddthat.com 24 points 1 year ago

Protect yourself first, never apologize.

People that call you names are also telling you they don't have your back and do not care if they give you covid or if you die from it.

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[–] RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de 61 points 1 year ago

To distract themselves from their own problems.

[–] Frank@hexbear.net 38 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's real bad. Fun fact: I am very big, and I've worn straight up gas masks at some points during the pandemic, and no one has ever said anything to me. Plague rats are real brave as long as they're pretty confidant there won't be consequences. It's gross.

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[–] Shortstack@reddthat.com 36 points 1 year ago (5 children)

This is why I started exclusively wearing kn95s because it became clear after a time that people simply don't give a shit about anyone except themselves, they don't care if you or I get covid and die.

So I stopped pretending like I'm doing my part since we all know surgicals and cloth masks are only truly effective if everyone else is wearing them. They know too but choose to fuck us anyway. So fuck them too and protect yourself first. Wear your p100 respirator with the exhaust vents that filter nothing for extra vindictive points

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[–] LucidNightmare@lemm.ee 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Honestly, I am not immunocompromised and I still wear a mask because I haven’t gotten sick since the pandemic started, and it even helps my sinus’ when I’m cleaning the house. I’ve never been one to worry about what someone thinks of me, so I’m sorry if this comes off as tone deaf, but fuck ‘em. Why should you care about what they think about you? When was the last time you thought about that person who was doing something you thought was strange in the local mart? I will assume not until I just made you think about them. Live your life as safely as you want. For every moron out there trying to make fun of you (they can try, but ultimately they themselves just look foolish and stupid) there are more like me and the others who wear masks alongside you. Stay safe and have a good rest of your day!

[–] macabrett@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

it even helps my sinus’ when I’m cleaning the house.

One of the best parts about having a bunch of cloth masks from early in the pandemic is they're great for cleaning. I wear one when I clean my cats' litterboxes every day.

I wear N95s outside the house, but cloth masks have still proven useful.

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[–] TheKaul@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is the same issue the LGBT community suffers from, as well as people of color, people with accents, etc. People always find ways to make themselves feel superior to others by pointing out something different. You choosing to wear a mask just makes those kinds of people laugh because they either 1. Feel better than you for not wearing masks or 2. They are uneducated/ignorant and follow others' opinions without question.

I suppose the only way to turn it back around on them would be to try scaring them by saying you have something contagious like strep throat, or worse, so they'll shut up and leave you alone. Otherwise my only other advice would be to just do your best to not engage with these types of people.

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[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

Probably the same kind of people complaining about their religion being “under attack”, yet they’re the only ones actively pushing their religion on everyone else and trying to criminalize anything that goes against what they think it stands for.

[–] Lowered_lifted@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I was refused service at my bank the other day for not taking off my mask when they asked. They never had a problem with me being masked up before, even when I opened the account. I went and used mobile deposit instead, but it was a really disturbing precedent. I wrote in asking about their policy and instead of a straight answer I was dodged by management.

I don't want to sue them or anything, I just want them to come to their senses and not prohibit me from making a deposit to my account because I don't want to get sick.

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[–] HandsomePotatoe@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

I work in the med/surg floor of a busy hospital, even though management has taken down mask requirements for patients and staff, I still keep mine on when I go into patients room. I'm not immunocomprised, I just don't trust other people to tell me or the admitting staff the truth of their problems.

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