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I wasn’t able to get an abortion. Now I’m raising my rapist’s baby
(www.independent.co.uk)
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Nah hated is entirely possible. Depends entirely on the mother and if she has the emotional and rational capacity to separate it. If her brain makes her think of her rapist every time she looks at her child, it will be impossible to love it.
I hope she can love it but i wouldnt blame her if she cant.
I’ll blame any parent that forces their trauma onto an innocent child.
And I say this as a rape victim and a child abandoned at birth.
The whole idea of "trauma" is that its involuntary. You dont have a rational choice, your brain makes the choice for you.
If you have trauma of that level you either go with therapy or put your child up for adoption. Its not something you can solve with willpower.
Right and if you don’t do those things, and instead take it out on an innocent child I’m going to blame the fuck out of you.
I don’t mean to be even more dystopian, but doesn’t the biological father have to consent to adoption/get first rights to adopt?
As a parent who had a traumatic childhood, as well as partner to two raped AFABs, you don't "force" your trauma on your children, you have to force yourself to overcome your trauma to be a better person.
Trauma is fucking hard to deal with at the best of times when you don't have evidence of your traumatic even sitting in front of you all day every day. I can't comprehend the difficulty they would have to deal with everyday, but that also isn't an excuse to not be better, and the child absolutely deserves better.
What is an AFAB?
Assigned Female at Birth. It's an umbrella term that includes cisgender* women, transgender men, and non-binary people who were born with the anatomy typically associated with women.
*Cisgender means someone who's gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth.
Ah okay, thanks for explaining it, that abriviation is new to me.