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this post was submitted on 15 Aug 2023
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I'm so tired of the "just change instances" argument that comes up every time mods make a bad decision. It's as bad as "just watch something else" for movies. Like yeah, literally everyone recognizes that you can choose how to spend your time, but that fact isn't a magic buffer against critisism.
I understand that but also I can change instances in two clicks on an app once I’m signed up. I was going to post this one with my world account but it was going slow so I switched. Same two clicks to view piracy or porn. Yeah it would be easier to not have to but I understand why someone would simply choose to not fuss with it. Running these things is basically a hobby.
Imagine if you were invited to a party at a friend’s house…well, this friend got mad when you started lighting off fireworks at midnight and waking his neighbors up…this friend makes you take your shoes off when you come in their house. This friend doesn’t want you to watch porn because the kids are playing video games in the other room. Well it’s a free country right, why can’t I light off fireworks? As your friend I want you to have fun at my party man, I really do…that’s why I invited you…but my neighbors will call the cops and I have to deal with then in the morning. And my wife will kill me if the floor gets all scuffed up. If you want to leave the party because of that I’m sorry.
It's not meant as a "magic buffer to criticism."
It's just a more polite alternative to "nobody gives a shit what you think, so fuck off."
Gotta love how it's somehow simultaneously "I'm so annoyed everyone's talking about it" and "nobody gives a shit". Make up your mind. You don't get to have it both ways. Maybe you don't give a shit, but a lot of people do, and they want to discuss it. Not everything is about you. Also, gotta love the irony of someone showing up on someone's forum to loudly declare how much they don't care about something.
Stop it! You're making me miss reddit awards! Because your post needs awards!
Everyone should switch instances, but not because of this stuff. LW is just too large right now. The fediverse wasn't designed to have so many people in one place. Communities were supposed to spread out and build their own specialized instances. This attempt to recreate reddit on one instance never should have happened.
This is more like "I hate the way this movie looks on this TV!" when you have free alternative TVs you could use instead.
This logic doesn't even work for tvs. Even if I return a bad tv to get a better one, I'm still gonna leave a bad review on the amazon page.
True, complaining that you think the instance sucks is valid - but I do think how inconveniencing it is should factor in. Since you can simply make a new account on a different instance and continue viewing the exact same content, getting too bent out of shape about it is a bit silly.