Excatly why I never opened my instance. With it just being me, i can control what is on it and what is synced. There was too much risk with CP/CSAM type stuff. Heck I didnt even want to risk my linode account (aka they shut my other VPS systems down) due to TOS from shenanigans.

That said, I can still contribute just fine with my own instance and dont have to be involved in these drama defederation actions.

I would encourage anyone that is willing to criticize an instance maintainer for their decisions on risk to just roll out the lemmy-ansible setup and go your own way. If you troll or act in bad faith, you will get defederated. If you act like a reasonable person, no one will even notice. And that way you are in control of uptime, patch cadence, backups etc.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does self-hosting still have the problem of not being able to find communities since nobody on your instance had followed them?

I was looking at self hosting for my normal browsing stuff, with all the porn and questionable stuff defederated or blocked (and keep this one exactly where it is on dbzer0) but I mostly just browse all, and I’ve heard that’s the same feed as subscribed on tiny instances.

Any insight on that?

[–] freeman@lemmy.pub 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have NSFW unchecked on my instance, so no porn is ingested/federated. Also because its just me, i have to seek out communities to federate with via search.

I did this via https://lemmyverse.net/communities and changed the linked names to my domain and just ran searchs to start the federation for the specific communities i found interesting.

It does mean things like "Local" is useless and subscribed and all are the same filters since its only stuff i subscribed to.

Occasionally I will browse one of alts on a different instance and check all, or local there and see if theres anything interesting. I have also re-run through the link above here and there to find new communities to join. Those are probably the biggest "pain points" in that it takes more effort to find new communities. But once you start the feed its fine.

I also use different default filters on my alt's in different instances (ie: ALL:HOT on lemmy.world) or whatnot if im feeling like finding new stuff. But honestly the lemmyverse stuff gets like 99% of the content here, and theres been a dip in participation, so some communities are idling (which just means I dont see anything)

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

Cool thanks for the breakdown. I appreciate your time!

[–] Setarkus@mander.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A few questions as you're self hosting an instance and I haven't read much about it yet.
Are you hosting it on personal hardware?
Can you just choose any free name for the domain if it's on your own hardware or do you need to rent one regardless?
Do you keep it active all the time or turn it off for the night/other periods of time where you know you won't use it?

[–] freeman@lemmy.pub 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Are you hosting it on personal hardware?

Not currently, though I am considering it. Right now I host mine on a VPS in linode. Though i need to downgrade it, I built it with the expectationg of allowing joins, but recently decided just to keep it private.

Can you just choose any free name for the domain if it’s on your own hardware or do you need to rent one regardless?

This wouldnt work. You not only need to have a routable/real domain name, but the server likely needs access to the internet to allow fro federation, specifically ingress traffic, to work.

Do you keep it active all the time or turn it off for the night/other periods of time where you know you won’t use it?

Mine runs 24/7. Even if i hosted it at home it would be 24/7. Only issue is

I already use port 80/443 at home. So i would need to reconfigure NGINX to use a proxy, which could also break federation. I could do that, in fact I am pretty sure the ansible config uses NGINX proxy commands, just that I would have to customize it and Im lazy. I already have stuff on VPS systems in linode (blog, teamspeak etc) so its no biggy to have another one.
My internet at home can be flaky. For example I currently dont have power at home and while I normally run on UPS for a time, and can cut to generator when I am home, my network just went into auto-shutdown.