And now you're changing what you said. You were talking about listening to music. You said if someone doesn't like the loud music you're listening to in a public space, you want to have a discussion with them about it.

So if someone else is listening to loud music at a cemetery, you should expect them to want to discuss it with whoever tells them to turn it off before they turn the music off.

Unless you think rules that apply to you don't apply to others. Which is it?