What's the consensus on the definition of incel? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 day ago by ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Is it simply: involuntarily celibate, or does it come with a package?

To me, "incel" has always meant someone who’s simply just celibate against their will, but it feels like the term now also implies a specific worldview or even a subculture. Does identifying as an incel automatically come with those negative beliefs around gender and society, or should those two have separate terms? Has the definition changed?"

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[-] Sundial@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago

I see where you're coming from. Just keep in mind that the original intent of the group has been stolen a long time ago, something like 10 years ago at this point. At this point these people aren't a sub-group of incels. They've completely co-opted the term and rebranded the incel term. Anyone who was originally incel for the right reasons has run off so far away from this term they might as well be in another planet. And I don't blame them, who wants to be lumped into misogynistic assholes who fantasize about killing and raping women as well as underage girls simply because they think they're entitled to sex?

[-] ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago

My motivation here is only to probe on what other people really think of when using that word, so that I know what they really mean by it

[-] Sundial@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago

There's no problem with that. It's clear based on your responses that you're just trying to understand it and wrap your mind around it. Just thought to give you a heads up about the term in case you start using it or something.

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