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He's literally this scene from LOTR, one second he's kind and nice to me then he just snaps. You can imagine what it does for my mental health.
That's the thing, in like 2 days from now he'll probably ask me how I'm doing and if I want to go for a ride.
Do you feel strong enough to push back in those moments that he’s berating you? Like someone else said, some people are so casual with their mean comments that they think people will snap back as quickly as they do. I get the impression that you are somewhat dependent on him at the moment, so if you can make the situation better by showing him you won’t just take the punches, it might be worth a shot.
Also, you are more than what he thinks of you- remember that. Good luck, comrade.
Thanks comrade.
And do you actually want to go for a ride or do you just feel obligated to?
I need to get to the store