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submitted 3 months ago by nifty@lemmy.world to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[-] nifty@lemmy.world 29 points 3 months ago

I feel like if someone wants to be a gender without surgery that’s a totally valid choice. I don’t get the expectations around having the “right” genitals. Who decides what’s right? It’s trying too hard to conform to an understanding of gender identity that’s now archaic.

[-] ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.ml 17 points 3 months ago

I agree completely, surgery is definitely not a requirement especially with how inaccessible it is for so many people. That logic doesn't seem to fly for the sister in question though so maybe an appeal to 'yeah but some trans people have earned it according to you' could get a foot in the door