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dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/adhd@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 2 points 6 hours ago

thanks, ill talk to my gf and some friends about it ^^

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/adhd@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

i love that actually, gum helps me with quite a few neurodivergency issues, if i had more access to it id be using it constantly

i always wished there was like a gum that just existed to be chewed on forever and could be washed or something

Monke in c/lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 18 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

dont let anyone stop you from spinning

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

maybe i should really try to get into doing that, i struggled with it so i tended to lose motivation but if‎ its gonna help me with this its worth doing

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 1 points 7 hours ago

yeah they sound really good, i struggle with pills for a few reasons‎ but those reasons would be worth getting over imo, but i dont even get the chance

kitty rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] ollie@pawb.social 8 points 7 hours ago

it is a pretty cute room, with some adjustments id love that

i just get jealous of singke bedrooms though lol, never had such a luxury

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 1 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

unfortunately, asking never goes well, i try to be verynice about it but mum just wont let me, so i always have to find alternative coping mechanisms

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

yes it can be very similar to that sometimes!

i did get covid (thrice) but this happened a while after even the last infection, i think its just been a very developmntal couple of years either way and ive learned lots about myself

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

they are seperate issues yes, sorry if it seemed like i was lumping them together

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 2 points 7 hours ago (7 children)

yes i do have adhd, hence the crosspost! i coulda specified 😅 unfortunately my mum wont let me get medication :/ and im a bit worried theyll reduce the parts of me i do like too lol

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/adhd@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

thats part of where the problem started for me 😅

dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
[–] ollie@pawb.social 1 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

pre covid, i was a (very young, just at a local kids stage school) theatre kid. i was naturally loud and yappy, quite stereotypical really. over covid, butmainly after around 2023-2024 has been an extremely big point for the development of my personality

now, i was used to people seeing this loud and frankly annoying version of me, and i was used to being it, so i end up reverse-masking bif thatmakes sense because people can be very judgemental to me of any change (and my family wonders why i dont tell them about things lol)

so habitually, i continue to be loud and annoying

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dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? (pawb.social)
submitted 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) by ollie@pawb.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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cross-posted from: https://pawb.social/post/37056794

i tend to be a bit of a yapper, very loud (theres an interesting reverse-masking thing going on there, which if anyones interested, lmk and ill explain) and tend to be quite rude.

really inside, im a quiet person, but i tend to impulsively speak and be loud, and say things i dont really want to say, e.g. being rude.

these are things i really want to deal with. when i talk less, and be quieter like i am inside, i tend to be much happier. does anyone have any tips?

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dealing with impulsive yapping/being rude and volume control? (pawb.social)
submitted 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) by ollie@pawb.social to c/adhd@lemmy.world
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i tend to be a bit of a yapper, very loud (theres an interesting reverse-masking thing going on there, which if anyones interested, lmk and ill explain) and tend to be quite rude.

really inside, im a quiet person, but i tend to impulsively speak and be loud, and say things i dont really want to say, e.g. being rude.

these are things i really want to deal with. when i talk less, and be quieter like i am inside, i tend to be much happier. does anyone have any tips?

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got a link plushie! (pawb.social)
 

got this for christmas, i love him hes so cute!!!

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Headphone recommendations under £50? (pawb.social)
submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by ollie@pawb.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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I'm in the market for some good headphones, I dont have the highest needs for soundquality though. I like EDM, so clear sound and nice bass is nice, and I really like ASMR, so some good sound staging would be cool, though I need closed backs. I prefer over or on ear, and bluetooth is nice for me (it never gave me any trouble and is convenient to me.)

I would orefer the top headband to not be plastic - my mum accuses me of pretending not to hear her when I genuinely cant, so I've gotten into a habit of having one earcup off, causing many a snapped headband.

ANC is a nice bonus but I know I cant ask for too much.

The ANC Altec Lansing Nanophones seem promising to me, but not the Nanophones 2 as they seem to be a full plastic headband.

Thanks in advance :3

Edit: Immediately forgot I made this thread, found the aforementioned first gen Nanophones at a really good price and went for it, thanks though! Feel free to share recommendations anyway if you want, it might help someone else

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What are your favourite non-political Lemmy communities? (pawb.social)
 

trying to maintain a nicer,‎ more fun feed than i ever really got anywhere else, whats your favourite non political communities on here and why?

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springrule (pawb.social)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by ollie@pawb.social to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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