nettie

joined 2 years ago
[–] nettie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Chatbot chump would be better!

[–] nettie@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Not great. I feel like everyone is happy ignoring the fact I'm trans. Especially if it makes them feel awkward. I'm really struggling with holding the reality of being trans, and that being actually a fairly normal thing, and the reality that f&f can act like I'm not, that I don't need support, that I can just carry on being who they want to see me as (cis).

It's really exhausting and it gives me panic attacks.

[–] nettie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago
[–] nettie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thanks for your post. Yeah I've done encrypted OS partitions myself and it's worked fine - it's asked for the password. This was a bit different because I was needing something unlocked that - as far as the boot loader was concerned - was not needed for boot. I did find the solution though - see my edit in OP above.

[–] nettie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Thanks, I solved it by RTM-ing, see edit.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by nettie@lemmy.world to c/linux@lemmy.ml
 

I have a file system on LVM inside LUKS on a 2nd SSD that I'd like to mount at boot time. The OS boots fine on the main (non-LUKS) SSD.

/etc/crypttab contains a line mapping a UUID to a name, with no keyfile.

/etc/fstab contains a line mapping /dev/LVMvg/volume to /home/special

But I'm not asked for the passphrase at boot.

I can do it manually once booted (cryptdisks_start asks for the passphrase, decrypts it, and then LVM picks up the volumes enabling me to mount /home/special.) But I'd like all this to happen early in the boot.

How can I make the early processes ask me for the crypt password?

Thanks!

EDIT: Solved!

Thanks (blush) to man crypttab ... Add initramfs to the options field in crypttab does the trick. I was a bit confused though because man crypttab tells me that Systemd's crypttab is different and doesn't support the initramfs option... but I'm using systemd and it worked. Anyway, it did work. Phew.

Thanks for answers though!

[–] nettie@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago
[–] nettie@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

I have worked several fruit farms. Yes it's hard work. You do get used to it but of course it requires fitness /flexibility that is harder with age. But I've also worked in factories which was hard too.

Immigrants may work these jobs because, like non immigrants, they're desperate. You can find yourself working with people with serious qualifications for better jobs - because they're desperate.

"Taking our jobs" is just a trope.

[–] nettie@lemmy.world 38 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Ddg:

Ran https://voteyesornoai.com/ Where of 175k people, 90% said No AI

Offers noai.duckduckgo.com, presumably to cater to this 90% who don't want it.

Has AI first features in main product. Does not advertise noai much.

So...

  1. It's primary product goes against it's market research
  2. It's pushing AI, not promoting the alternative
  3. People keep promoting ddg for (2) despite (1)

Just seems weird.

[–] nettie@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Ugh. I've got one fedora box. Going to debian. Even if AI shite gets into sid, it'll be years after the bubble's popped before it reaches stable 🤣

[–] nettie@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago
[–] nettie@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Of course, and by AI first they mean profit and fash first. Humanity, reason, democracy and accountability last.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by nettie@lemmy.world to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

I'm trans femme, considering hrt. By a long way, most reports of what it's like say: within the first week I felt different emotionally /in my mind. Feelings seem to vary from calmer, to the author feeling more herself. This initial euphoric feeling is reported to fade over time, usually.

I just wondered how it would feel for a cis man if he were to take it for a week. I understand that if you stopped after a week there would not be any long term effects at all. So I'd be surprised if it hadn't been tried!

Why do I wonder this? I suppose I'm wondering if it feels good for everyone. I'm scared of taking it. But I'm scared of living with the constant doubt. Most gender affirming actions I've taken have been very helpful, really made me feel more myself. But if hrt makes everyone feel better, at least at first, I wouldn't be able to know whether it would be right for me by trialling it (and thereby judge whether it might be worth all the downsides that come along with the positives or not).

Any experience shared is v welcome!


Edit: Thanks everyone for interesting info! I wanted to add here at top that in no way am I saying a person's reaction to hormones has any effect on their gender. I'm not looking to "test" my trans-ness by trying hrt. Just interested to learn more about the range of responses. Many thanks all 🙂

 

Silent notifications are annoying me, they put up icons by the clock and make me think I have something to notice but it's just a service.

E.g. ntfy

If I go to app management screen I can disable notifications but I'm unclear if that means the background service doesn't run as it should - I'm sure I've seen something about that somewhere.

I'm on android 15. Thanks in advance!

 

I noticed that if you have too few pm_children set then some requests hang until timeout. This surprised me - I'd expect an immediate error, but it's more like a tarpit! For ages I was thinking my server was not performant, then I noticed via top that it wasn't doing or waiting while the browser was.

I have two questions:

  1. If you have pm_max_children=1 and you occupy that and submit another request, what actually happens? (I'm proxying through nginx.) HTTP doesn't have a "40_ Come back later".

  2. (if life deals you lemons...) if you can generate a tarpit that doesn't use server resources, this could be quite useful to know about too!

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by nettie@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

A personal take on how I experience gender.

EDIT - more context would have helped as

I'm not trying to propose some simplified mathematical fits all graph here.

I'm struggling, having been out as non binary for about 5 years, with the idea that trans woman might be a better introductory starting point label for me. I understand gender as complex - far more complex than a 2 line graph sketch - but drew the graph to hone in on MY experience with fluidity. I was interested in my strength/clarity of feeling at different points.

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