No matter how many times I see a woman perform oral with no hands assistance, I will always be impressed.
And here we can see the control, the concentration, the technique, put into it but also the pleasure the girl is getting herself from what she is doing.
She is enjoying herself.
That goes beyond porn.
I would say that if the degree of atraction someone has for you depends on you being into anal, that is not the right person for you.
I personally enjoy anal. My partner enjoys it as well. It's great, we have a lot of fun. My previous partner did not. And that was fine as well.
Do you enjoy anal? Or do you not? If you do, great. If you do not, great.