monkeyman512

I read that as "Padan Fain" at first glance and was confused by The Far Side and Wheel of Time crossover.

I have always thought that part of his motivation for staying was that, in his view, Picard was such an amazing captain that not staying to learn from him would be a missed opportunity more than having his own command.

Dog is good.

I wonder if there is any meaningful relationship between rate of Linux adoption and percentage of games people are actively playing being marked as Steam Deck ready?

I agree with having the server run Proxmox like others have said. Check out these YouTube channels for helpful information/guides:

LearnLinuxTV

LawrenceSystems

CraftComputing

Makes sense. Trained on software engineers working that pattern for decades.

I would suggest couples counseling with a therapist that has experience with ADHD clients.

That is a take of the "there are 2 wolves inside you" thing I have never heard before.

Didn't it go beyond "destroyed the empire"? I have vague memories of wiping out cities then coming back days or weeks later to kill all the survivors that came out of hiding and salting the earth so nothing would grow.

I just started playing with Dockhand and it looks like it has a built in update schedule mechanism. It's fills a comparable role as Portainer, so maybe check that out.

It's hard to be thoughtful about why you aren't good at swimming while you are actively fighting to keep your head above water.

Welcome to the club. It sounds like you have a journey of learning and healing. I personally find some YouTube channels helpful you may want the check out:

https://youtube.com/@healthygamergg

https://youtube.com/@howtoadhd

I know it can be really hard. You will probably oscillate between "This is fine, I got this" and "This is impossible and it will never get better". Just know your not alone in the experience and you are capable of improving things. It will take time and help, but you can do it.