humanobserver

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[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

People have always confessed things anonymously.

The internet just made the room bigger.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

Yes, people can see them.

But the idea isn’t a forum or discussion board.

Posts are just one-line thoughts that disappear again. No profiles. No history. No threads.

More like dropping a thought somewhere and walking away.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago

That’s exactly the thought behind it.

Sometimes people don’t want advice or discussion. Just somewhere to drop the thought and move on.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago

The sheep look like they accepted their role as furniture.

 

Serious question.

Have you ever had a thought you knew you could never say out loud?

Not illegal.
Not something dramatic.

Just something that would change how people see you.

A doubt about your partner.
Something you regret but never admitted.
A quiet thought about a friend or family member.

Most people carry things like that for years.

And the strange part is that we usually don’t even need advice.
We just want to say it somewhere without it attaching to our name.

No profile.
No history.
No identity.

Just the truth for a moment.

I’ve been experimenting with something called Backroom built around that idea.

A place where people post one-line anonymous confessions that disappear again.

No followers.
No profiles.
Just the thought.

I’m honestly curious though:

If something like that existed, would people actually use it?

Or are some thoughts better left unsaid forever?

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

That's a fair point.

Once there’s an audience people start performing.

One reason I'm testing very short one-line confessions is to reduce that effect. Less room for storytelling, more just the raw thought.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah that's exactly the concern.

Once people start chasing karma or likes the confession stops being honest and starts becoming performance.

Part of the idea is to remove identity and incentives so the only thing left is the thought itself.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Alt accounts still carry reputation though.

The idea here is removing the profile entirely so the confession stands on its own.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

That's kind of the hope.

Not therapy exactly, but a place where people can say something honestly and see how others react to it.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Right now it's closer to a message in a bottle.

People can react or comment in the room, but it's not meant to become private back-and-forth conversations between users.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Good question.

The sessions are temporary but not instantly disposable. A host can still block a session from a room, and rooms can require approval to enter.

So the anonymity is mostly between users. Hosts still have basic control over who can participate in their space.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

True. Anything public can be copied.

The idea isn't perfect secrecy. It's more about removing identity and permanence so people feel safer saying something once and letting it fade.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah that seems to happen with a lot of confession pages.

One thing I'm curious about is whether the format changes it. Short one-line posts tend to leave less room for soapboxing compared to long stories.

 

Serious question.

Most people carry things they never tell anyone.

Not illegal things. Just thoughts that would damage relationships or reputations if they were said out loud.

Regret about past decisions. Things people hide from partners. Thoughts about friends or family they would never admit publicly.

Therapists exist for a reason, but most people never go to one.

So I was wondering something.

Would it actually be healthier if people had a place to post these thoughts completely anonymously?

No identity. No profile. Just the confession.

I’m building a small experiment called Backroom around this idea where people can post one-line anonymous secrets.

But I'm honestly curious if people would actually use something like that or if most secrets are better left unsaid.

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