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[–] gon@lemm.ee 13 points 3 months ago

OOOOOOH OKC!! I was so confused as to why they'd have a cock ring...

[–] gon@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I wonder if that's genetic; there's people that say celery tastes like soap, for example. I thought it might be something similar.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago (5 children)

Hmmm yeah, I guess I just don't get it - or don't see it, more accurately.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 6 points 3 months ago (9 children)

I'm rather colourblind, so I'm really not sure what the really green stuff is. Are peas not really green? I thought they were orange for a very long time, but I'm pretty sure I've been told they're green, actually.

Black eyed peas freaking rock. I love black eyed pea salad with onion and tuna. A shame you don't vibe with broccoli... I love roasted broccoli, especially. Oh well!

[–] gon@lemm.ee 8 points 3 months ago

Well, to each their own :D

[–] gon@lemm.ee 30 points 3 months ago (15 children)

Probably writing. I make sure to write a little every day. I feel like it helps me keep a rhythm and allows me to reflect on the things I care about, the things I'm thinking about, and what I've done that day.


That way I get it out if the way then I can enjoy the rest of meal without having to worry about eating it.

I always find it so weird to hear that there really are people that genuinely dislike vegetables. Or am I misunderstanding this? I love veggies :D

[–] gon@lemm.ee 15 points 3 months ago (5 children)

OMGGGGGGG SO CUUUUUTE!!!! Those big eyes!!

Hope he recovers well.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

Not quite answering your question, since I don't watch much sports at all so I don't really have an opinion on the most boring, but baseball - a sport that people often say is very boring to watch - I find to be not boring at all! I enjoy it very much.

It's definitely slower and less exciting overall than basketball, for example, but I don't think it's boring at all, despite its reputation.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

I've noticed I didn't actually say in this post why I want to go through my wardrobe... I want to get rid of some clothes I don't wear!

[–] gon@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago

Is this a fox?

[–] gon@lemm.ee 11 points 3 months ago

Amazing comment.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 11 points 3 months ago

Was pretty wild, but things got resolved within a day in Portugal.

 

There's so many ways to interact with the Fediverse. The most popular, by far, seems to be Mastodon, but Lemmy, Misskey, and Pixelfed are also relatively popular. Kbin used to be popular, but it has apparently been abandoned, and is mostly dead at this point.

I recently learned that Mbin is a thing, checked it out, and it looked really cool! Has anyone used it? How different is it from Lemmy? I hear they have better integration with Mastodon.

What Fediverse services do you actually, regularly use?

For me, it's mostly Lemmy, though I do hop on Mastodon every now and then.

 

For a few months now, Uber has been lagging rather intensely for me.

I have no clue why, but it's pretty annoying. As such, I was thinking of switching from Uber to Bolt. A nice bonus is that Bolt is a European company.

The UI is way better, the app feels way smoother, there's bike and scooter rentals... Why was I not using this before?! The price's are the same, anyway...

I also ended up uninstalling a bunch of other apps I wasn't using, in the process. Pretty nice!

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/57380534

The Warriors have been doing really well since the Jimmy trade. They're 9-2. That's very, very good.

Here's the thing: in that stretch of games, they faced exactly 0 (zero) actual contenders. By actual contenders, I mean OKC, the Nuggets, Boston, and Cleveland. The closest things to a contender they faced were the Mavs, the Knicks, and the Bucks, but the Bucks didn't have Giannis, they went 1-1 against the Mavs without AD and they're cooked regardless, and well the Knicks were actually good and got blown out. That is to say, I'm unconvinced.

You see people talking about how Steph's been unleashed by Jimmy, which might be fair


he has been playing really well, regardless of whether that can be attributed to Jimmy or not


but misses the point, at least in part. Has he been playing well against fuckass OKC? Because, quite frankly, if they can't beat Shai, it doesn't matter. It just doesn't matter.

Steph needs another ring, Jimmy needs a ring. Anything outside of a championship is a failure for this season. Time is running out, and I just don't see this team performing at a high enough level to get there. I say this with a pained chest, of course, but they just aren't good enough.

I know, I know, shocker. Nobody's really walking around saying that the Warriors have a shot at the big-one, so it's not like I'm providing revolutionary analysis here, but it does frustrate me to watch this.


I'd also like to talk about NBA nicknames. I've always thought nicknames are one of the coolest aspect of NBA fandom; the joker, king James, chef Curry... These are iconic. They make watching the games that much more fun. Recently, the NBA has underwent a bit of a nickname renaissance, so to speak, seemingly on the back of "The Anomaly," referring to Jayson Tatum. It's not a bad nickname, as far as nicknames go, but it doesn't fit at all. It's a brilliant example of undeserved glazing, if anything. However, people have taken it in stride and started developing nicknames for other, sometimes mostly irrelevant NBA players.

My favourite ones so far are "The Trolley Problem" for Santi Aldama, and "The Ad Hominem Fallacy" for Jalen Green. I've tried looking it up, but I have no idea why Jalen got stuck with that, which makes it even funnier. They're so ridiculous, like Santi's, but mostly they're comprehensible. The idea is that Aldama presents a moral dilemma to the defender. Not bad, not bad... But I think that the sheer absurdity of a nickname as incomprehensible, nigh undecipherable, as Jalen Green's pushes it over the top of great into legendary status.

I saw a comment on a TikTok where the nickname "The Butcher" for Draymond Green was advanced. It pointed out how the Warriors have a chef, a butcher, and a butler. That's just perfect.

 

The Warriors have been doing really well since the Jimmy trade. They're 9-2. That's very, very good.

Here's the thing: in that stretch of games, they faced exactly 0 (zero) actual contenders. By actual contenders, I mean OKC, the Nuggets, Boston, and Cleveland. The closest things to a contender they faced were the Mavs, the Knicks, and the Bucks, but the Bucks didn't have Giannis, they went 1-1 against the Mavs without AD and they're cooked regardless, and well the Knicks were actually good and got blown out. That is to say, I'm unconvinced.

You see people talking about how Steph's been unleashed by Jimmy, which might be fair


he has been playing really well, regardless of whether that can be attributed to Jimmy or not


but misses the point, at least in part. Has he been playing well against fuckass OKC? Because, quite frankly, if they can't beat Shai, it doesn't matter. It just doesn't matter.

Steph needs another ring, Jimmy needs a ring. Anything outside of a championship is a failure for this season. Time is running out, and I just don't see this team performing at a high enough level to get there. I say this with a pained chest, of course, but they just aren't good enough.

I know, I know, shocker. Nobody's really walking around saying that the Warriors have a shot at the big-one, so it's not like I'm providing revolutionary analysis here, but it does frustrate me to watch this.


I'd also like to talk about NBA nicknames. I've always thought nicknames are one of the coolest aspect of NBA fandom; the joker, king James, chef Curry... These are iconic. They make watching the games that much more fun. Recently, the NBA has underwent a bit of a nickname renaissance, so to speak, seemingly on the back of "The Anomaly," referring to Jayson Tatum. It's not a bad nickname, as far as nicknames go, but it doesn't fit at all. It's a brilliant example of undeserved glazing, if anything. However, people have taken it in stride and started developing nicknames for other, sometimes mostly irrelevant NBA players.

My favourite ones so far are "The Trolley Problem" for Santi Aldama, and "The Ad Hominem Fallacy" for Jalen Green. I've tried looking it up, but I have no idea why Jalen got stuck with that, which makes it even funnier. They're so ridiculous, like Santi's, but mostly they're comprehensible. The idea is that Aldama presents a moral dilemma to the defender. Not bad, not bad... But I think that the sheer absurdity of a nickname as incomprehensible, nigh undecipherable, as Jalen Green's pushes it over the top of great into legendary status.

I saw a comment on a TikTok where the nickname "The Butcher" for Draymond Green was advanced. It pointed out how the Warriors have a chef, a butcher, and a butler. That's just perfect.

 

I think it's great that the internet has connected so many people. I love that I'm able to talk to someone on the other side of the world with a very different culture, language, and just overall life experience. I love that I can learn so much; so many different skills are just... Taught. For free. Online. It's really insane, when you think about it.

However, I hate how huge the internet feels, sometimes.

And I love how small it can feel, as well.

I follow this rather popular creator on TikTok called Mei. She does tinned fish reviews. It's hard for me to put into words how much I love her videos, but let it be known that I do love them very much. She has a website too: https://www.daywithmei.com/, consider checking her out. She's great.

Relatively recently (about a week ago), she posted a video in which she wore a super cute shirt. Pic related.

Mei with the cute shirt.

I don't know where she got it, but I want it!

 

It's so frustrating to want to put my feelings into words and failing. I feel so ignorant all the time, like I don't know enough to speak on any issue. When I do speak, I feel like I always miss something, some detail of the bigger picture, and it's always pointed out to me.

That's a good thing, I suppose. To be able to speak your mind and be corrected and helped.

I'm a patriot, I think, but I'm not a nationalist. I love my country because it's given me so much: a good education, good health services, good public transport... I love our language and our culture, our music both old and new, I love our rivers and the ocean that graces our shores, our forests, our food and our water... I saw a TikTok a few days ago, actually where a Portuguese person talked about how, whenever they travel abroad, they're flabbergasted by how terrible foreign water is. I've traveled all over Europe and can vouch for that. Foreign water sucks, it's crazy. Portuguese tap water is better than Dutch bottled water. I love our people too, all of them.

However, whenever I express this, I feel like I'm crazy. It's like there's only two kinds of people in this country: those that hate everything about it, and nationalist xenophobes. The people that see the good points of our country are not the ones that hate everything about it, by the way... And I really don't want to be associated with the xenophobes.

Partially, I'm scared that I'll become like them. I don't want to be hateful. It really does seem like the fascistic side of the deal really does have a monopoly on patriotism, though. Not patriotism, I suppose, it really is nationalism, but I find that that's a difference that only matters to the people that already know it, and that's not the everyman.

I saw this other TikTok about how the right has a narrative, and even if the narrative doesn't make sense, it's more than what the left has, so people flock to it in times of need. The right wins because the left fails to convince... And I find that this might be a big issue. I see people talk about how there's a big focus on the bad sides of our history---of which there are many---instead of the good sides. I don't know... I feel like that's a talking point, but if it resonates, then it matters, I feel like. I mean, I know of our country's history, and I still love it. I want to make our country better, to improve it, but it seems that the narrative that appeals to this mysterious time from before when we swam in gold coins like uncle scrooge is what people care about. And of course, it's all the browns in our midst. It's very frustrating...

I don't know. I feel like what I'm saying doesn't make that much sense, but I'm kinda hoping that getting it out might help me wring out some meaning out of this digital rag drenched by my stream-of-consciousness.


I find it really frustrating that Lemmy doesn't let you link posts or comments natively. You can like a comm with ! like in !gondaily@lemm.ee, you can link a user with @ like @gon@lemm.ee, but you can't link a post or a comment. I've looked into it a little, and I get why it's not possible, but it sucks!

 

It really frustrates me when people complain about action. I know that statement is so vague as to be meaningless, so please allow me to elaborate.

I'm seeing quite a few people post on Reddit about this new-ish movement of buying from the EU, which has actually also been catching some wind here on Lemmy on comms such as !buyeuropean@feddit.uk, namely on the Portuguese financial literacy subreddit. Now, whether or not that kind of thing has a place in a financial literacy sub is debatable, but that's besides the point, as that's not the chief complaint I see from commenters.

Instead, they complain that this idea of buying from EU is either useless, not enough, or virtue-signaling.

I find that very upsetting.

I'm not sure I'm totally on-board with the idea, but I do at least think it's a good thing overall to support local or regional businesses, it's good to support small businesses working on better, innovative, high-quality products and services, rather than the slop that the established giants take for granted consumers will eat up. It's not even a point of morality, it's actual practicality; you should aim to buy the best products, and capitalist monopolies are incompatible with quality service, so you shouldn't support monopolies.

Also, do small acts not count anymore? That one really irks me. I saw someone complain that this was all ridiculous because why are we worried about this instead of being worried about the housing market? What? That is such a monstrously STUPID thing to say that I was genuinely taken aback upon reading it. First of all, who said they're not also talking about those issues? But even if they weren't, so what?! Do smaller issues not matter? Is there some sort of restriction on the significance of issues that get airtime in a public forum?! Ridiculous.

Of course, people that wage these complaints don't talk about the "real issues" either, unless when they're trying to tear down those bringing up the "meaningless issues." Is this what they call reactionary politics? It's disgusting.

The worst part, maybe, is that they call the movement reactionary hypocrisy! I mean, on a surface level, everything can be said to be a reaction to something else, I suppose. However, I think there's a difference between being proactive and idle push-back. If the US starts on a rampage of poisonous international relations policy, then aren't the people affected entitled to a reaction? Are people not entitled to decide where their money goes?! Are they not entitled to decide to financially benefit this or that nation, that or the other company, in whichever way?! How is that hypocrisy? It's true the world is highly interconnected, it's hard, if not nigh-impossible, to completely disconnect from the US, but how is it hypocrisy to clamor for that sort of decoupling, regardless of one continues to use this or that service? Things aren't black or white, there's plenty of grey, there's levels to this, things don't change overnight. This genuinely bothers me.

On my part, I think I'll stick with my values of value-buying. Trying to get the most bang for my buck, the most quality. That will include a lot of European products, I think, but also American and other manufacturing, though it will mostly include second-hand and refurbished stuff.

Still, this rather intense hate I see some people react with is just... Beyond me. Whenever I see people react so strongly, I simply can't help but think that I might be missing something. There might be some aspect of this that I'm so terribly unaware of that I say the stupidest things.

The more I think about it, however, the more I think that I'm right. We really do benefit from supporting small businesses, buying second-hand, decoupling from dominating monopolies, and so on.

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I love the way the setting sun casts enormous shadows onto the trees.

The trees.

The winter time has rendered some of the foliage that surrounds me into skeletons; thin and lanky arms reach to the sky as if in prayer, uncountable off-shoots branch out in seemingly inscrutable patterns. The trees lie in wait, dancing softly in the wind, waving the setting sun good-bye.

A shadow crawls across the football field and the houses and the roads. The cars run in and out of the darkness, none the wiser. Soon, the dark reflection cast by my apartment complex will reach the clustered trunks. Then, it'll continue its incessant journey, until it covers every branch, dead or alive, indiscriminate as it is.

Even having lost their leaves, they pray. Even as they lose their light, they pray. The sky grows darker as the sun is snuffed out by time, and the trees still pray.

They look desperate. Underfed, famished. I wonder if each tree prays for something different, or if their connected roots, winding and touching and hugging and crushing each other, I wonder if their mouths that melt into one all whisper the same hymns and the same obsessed desires. A thousand, maybe a million tiny fingers reaching to the heavens all singing the same song, begging for life, and still the shadows cover everything.

They have no eyes of course. Even if they had had them, once, I'm sure they would've already gone blind from staring up.

Their steps are perfectly choreographed; it's a slow, methodical service. The priest speaks and whispers and blows, and the trees bow their heads, though they never kneel. They sway, but never lower their craving, reaching arms.

The moon takes the place of the sun. Maybe they'd recognize their god's light, I thought, but they didn't. Just as the shadows chased away the heavenly father, as is the mindless march of time, so did the trees' prayer warp. It no longer carries that same warmth and understanding, that scream for life. Now, it cries and it thinks and it rages.

Their fingers don't yearn and they don't dance. They reach like blades. The trees see a different nature in the moon, they see it as a phantasm, a mirage, a simulacrum of heat that brings nothing but pale light. They wag their fingers as they cry out, they rage at the darkened heavens as they scream. Their trunks are rugged and cracked, bleeding sap. Every new branch nothing but a tumorous growth from a gaping wound, but they take all they can get. They brandish their swords and they stab with their spears.

A blowing priest into a howling general. It screams like they scream, it cries like they cry, and it howls as they creak.

The very stars cower, tiny in the sky.

The moon hides behind the clouds.

The trees never sleep; they never forget. Still, in the morning, they will pray to the sun, with smiles carved into their bodies.

 

My little brother is awesome! :D

I got to speak to him, and I love him so much! We talked politics. It was great :D

 

I've been thinking of switching from Windows into some Linux distro. I haven't given this too much thought. I have a laptop somewhere with Debian installed---or Ubuntu, I don't quite remember---and I used to have Arch on it.

That part isn't really too much of a concern. If I really want to switch, I can easily get it on my laptop, or actually buy a new laptop so I can have a Windows and a Linux machine for different purposes. My current laptop is a little... Slow, to put it kindly, regardless.

The Android side of things, however, is a little bit weirder. I know that there's a lot of custom ROMs and OSes out there that increase privacy and de-Google your device and whatnot, but I simply don't know enough about basically any of them to make an informed decision.

I've heard of GrapheneOS, which seems cool but is only compatible with Pixel phones, it seems. I've heard of CalyxOS too, but I've heard some less than great reviews; I like Futo and Calyx is sponsored by them, but I don't put my trust there enough to just trust it. Maybe /e/OS is the best option?

I'll look into it.


I need to start taking notes... I keep forgetting the stuff I want to write about when it's time to write these posts.

 

I hate WhatsApp. Or rather, I hate how much of a grip on the market WhatsApp has.

Basically everybody uses WhatsApp over here; it's a given that you'd have WhatsApp if your age is below 55 or something. 55-year-olds are also expected to have WhatsApp, actually, if they have a smartphone... Which would be expected of a 55-year-old. I don't know what the cut-off age is, but it's high!

There's Signal, for example, which has equivalent functionality, but people just don't use it. The point of communication is to communicate, there's no point in being alone on Signal while everyone else is on WhatsApp.

I suppose that what's keeping the crown on WhatsApp's head is the fact it's closed-source. If there was a way to write an app like Signal that also interopped with WhatsApp I'd switch in an instant. Now, because of the Digital Markets Act, this should happen eventually... But it seemingly isn't happening.

I'm trying to wean myself off of Google, too. It's really hard though. Google has really entrenched itself into my life in a way that I simply hadn't realized. Before I knew it, I look around and everything's Google: my entertainment, my communication... I'm using a Tuta account now, for sign-ups and the like. I've also ditched Google Drive and associated services. But it's simply impossible, right now, to get rid of everything.

Slowly, though, I'm moving further and further away from these gigacorps.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/56619187

More than meets the eye, again and again.

At first, things seem quiet and unremarkable. A cliché premise, cliché developments, cliché characters... Actually, things didn't seem quiet and unremarkable at all; Re:Zero seemed boring and uninteresting. More of that ever-pouring slop Japanese webnovels insist on becoming, more of that persistent stench of mediocrity and the unbridled numbness of barren creativity.

Re:Zero is just more of the same old, same old.

At first...

But, at first, even the normal is strange. Even as we're born, we cry. We're confused, lost, terrified as the world that we now take for granted assaults our senses and wrecks our mind and body alike. Voices endless, smells, feelings, all of it is so much---too much! What makes life beautiful aren't the large pieces that we all have in common, but the small distinctions that make us unique. One would assume death is the same, of course.

All one can do is assume death is the same. That is, of course, except for Natsuki Subaru.

Re:Zero throws us into the typical isekai fantasy world---it even tricks us for a bit!---but pretty soon we understand that that's not the case at all. Natsuki Subaru doesn't die. Or rather, he dies and is then reborn. He gets to try again. That's what Re:Zero is about.

What if you could try again? What if your biggest failures were erased and you had a do-over?

As a premise, this is brilliant. It's not the first time I've read a time-travel story with a somewhat similar outline---shout-out to Mother of Learning---but Re:Zero is unique enough from within what I've read to trigger that novelty factor.

The cast is extensive and varied, including several of the traditional isekai tropes while continuously subverting them in some of the most creative ways possible. Even Subaru himself, the MC, is a subversion of the typical isekai MC. He reminds me of Kazuma from KonoSuba, actually, at first.

That's always the point, isn't it? At first, at first, at first... There's always more than meets the eye.

If that was all that Re:Zero was, it would be enough to make for a good story. However, Subaru is faced with the flip-side of his condition: he loses all the good parts too. The pain, the suffering, the despair that dripped from the pages when he loses everything was at times so overwhelming I actually had to take a breather. It's like the Witch's miasma bled through the screen and seeped into my eyes---that's the only reason I cried, of course...

What if you had to choose? What if you could try again, but even then you failed?

The ever-growing pressure of his mistakes digs into your heart and crushes your very soul, I'm telling you. Seeing him come to terms with how much he's lost and watching him gather the courage to keep going... It's beyond fantastic.

My biggest gripes with the novel are the following:

  • The translation is mediocre and littered with errors;
  • Subaru does too much talk no jutsu.

Still, it's not a big deal. I'm used to reading webnovels, so reading a poor translation isn't a significant problem; I just expected more. Subaru's incessant yapping can get frustrating at times, but I can rationalize it by saying that, well, if he dies, he can just try something else. When it works, it's hard to say that that wasn't the best option so... I can't really complain... I just don't like it that much. Let it be known, though, Re:Zero isn't just Subaru's yapsesh; he very much works! He tries, and fails, and tries, and fails, and he tries again. He tries everything he can think of. What I love most, perhaps, is that he doesn't get random power-ups like you see in other series. He gets stronger by failing and learning. He improves slowly by trial and error. It's really satisfying to see him figure things out!

The world is getting more and more complex by the volume, by the chapter, by the page really. By Volume 15, it felt like the world had grown ten-fold, both geographically and lore-wise. It's so complex and enticing with so many mysteries to dive into. I can't wait to learn more.

I mentioned the extensive cast already, but there's really no reason not to bring it up again. There isn't a single character I dislike in this whole thing. There are characters that are very much despicable, yes, but there aren't any of those cliché "bad because they're bad" or "good no matter what" characters. Every character is either extremely complex, with believable and deeply emotional motivations, or simply not developed enough to tell just yet. After all, there's so many characters but only so many pages to talk about them. I don't think that's to the detriment of the narrative in the slightest, though.

Really, the only character I actually have sincere gripes with is Subaru himself! Specifically in regards to his choice of heroine. He's wrong, and I'll stand by that. He's the only character in the whole series whose motivation I question. You'd think this would be a big deal, but it really isn't. He's an idiot, an irredeemable moron. That's what makes his story so compelling: we get to see an irredeemable moron turn into a somewhat redeemable moron, little by little, life by life, death by death.

Is this the greatest masterpiece of the 21st century? The century isn't over just yet, but it's in the running; I'll tell you that much.

What do you think?


Rating: 5/5

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Disclaimer: I read the Light Novel version of Re:Zero, not the WCT webnovel translation.

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