ebolapie

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[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Okay but where? On balance there are not a lot of those comments and they're downvoted through the floor. The complaints make it sound like they're alone in a sea of angry men.

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (21 children)

i see more complaints about misogyny in the comments here than actual misogyny. Which is good, I'm just wondering what I missed

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Women can be very good marksmen. If the implication here is that I don't think there are real photos of girls with guns that's not what I'm saying. I've just seen two or three posts recently of AI generated photos of girls with guns that replicated the film grain and had this 90s feel to them. One of them was good enough that I didn't even question it until I read the comments.

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (4 children)

They didn't see this coming?

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago (68 children)

I have seen too many AI images of girls with guns recently.

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

where's that guy who told me Iran doesn't stand a chance and I'm stupid for saying we lose even if we win

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

He's going to stick us with the bill, just like he does to everyone.

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I had to take the gen ed pregnancy test and I still failed.

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Phil Barber, Barber, Barber Shop

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 41 points 1 week ago

Because those companies can fight back, and besides, they went to college with the guys running them.

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Getting that 50/50 weight distribution and going sideways around corners is so satisfying. Sometimes I bring my headphones and listen to eurobeat while timing myself.

[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

A Texas donut is an apartment building that wraps around an attached parking structure. I've seen a few different variations but the nicer ones have courtyards between the units and the parking garage that I imagine is more to allow cross breeze than anything else because being inside them would be incredibly claustrophobic. Still a huge waste of space but if you really want your residents to all have cars they kind of make sense because the parking footprint is more or less the same as you would get as if you built a low rise, plus you hide the cars from the street view, which is nice because parking garages are usually pretty ugly. You can also bury the cars instead and that works way better for somewhere like downtown Seattle, since real estate is just so mind bogglingly expensive in downtown areas of major cities, but honestly if you're living in the city it seems like storing the car offsite would make more sense if you really feel like you have to have one that badly because underground parking is also ridiculously expensive compared to above ground parking structures, plus you have to worry about water ingress and degraded pilings and all sorts of nasty shit. That actually happened in Florida and it took the building with it when it went. Then again that's Florida, it might work better when you're not building a high rise on a sponge.

found it: https://apnews.com/article/surfside-tower-collapse-investigation-76a9176edbb581813b2fcc03850bd592

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by ebolapie@lemmy.world to c/adhd@lemmy.world
 

ADHD is not a quirk. It is ruining my life. I am disorganized, I am in debt, I am paralyzed. I can't even get help; I have tried navigating the maze of finding a doctor who will accept my crappy exchange insurance but I always end up throwing in the towel. I thought I found one, once, but sike, he's an addiction counselor who refuses to prescribe stimulant medication on principle.

Not that I'm opposed to trying nonstims again, but I was prescribed Strattera in high school and it made me so drowsy I failed chemistry because I couldn't stay awake even with a full night of sleep. Also, bonus, his profile on the site I used to find him lied, and he doesn't actually accept my insurance. Here's a $500 bill for our 45 minute zoom call where I accused you of drug seeking. I got his practice to cancel the charge but still.

ADHD is ugly; ADHD looks like every chair in my apartment being full of clutter (and me subsequently freaking out because I hate clutter). it looks like brushing my teeth every two or three or five days. It looks like being able to hold on to my job as a waiter nothing else. It looks like me having the money to pay my bills, me wanting to pay those bills, and then me getting sent to collections anyway. ADHD looks like ghosting an old best friend because I'm too embarrassed to keep up with him. It looks like my partner shouldering more of the housework than is fair. And I get to look back on all this behavior, identify and accept that I am the problem, and then I get to do fuck all to fix it. ADHD looks like a horizon that gets narrower and narrower every day.

And I feel alone. ADHD is not cute. It sucks to suck.

 

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