dandelion

joined 8 months ago
[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 1 points 8 months ago (2 children)

any particular reason, or just like a mental health break?

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

details about Westman's trans status

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Annunciation_Catholic_Church_shooting#Perpetrator

Westman at one point identified as transgender. Westman's given name was legally changed in 2019,[41] but before the attack Westman expressed being "tired of being trans" and wished to have "never brainwashed myself" in a diary entry. Westman further wrote that, "I don't want to dress girly all the time but I guess sometimes I really like it. I know I am not a woman but I definitely don't feel like a man."[42][43] There is no evidence that Westman had begun medical transition.

details about manifesto

Westman posted two YouTube videos, one 10 minutes and the other 20 minutes long, showing writings which referenced suicide, depression, "extremely violent thoughts and ideas", a message addressed "to my family and friends", and a drawing of the layout of a church.[47] A video showed a quantity of guns, bullets, and magazines. Messages written on the guns and magazines included phrases of antisemitic, anti-Catholic, and racist nature, "kill Donald Trump", "6 million wasn't enough" (referring to the death toll of the Holocaust), and the names of mass shooters Robert Bowers, Natalie Rupnow, Adam Lanza, James Holmes, Pekka-Eric Auvinen, Anders Behring Breivik, Marc Lépine, Charles Whitman, Vladislav Roslyakov, Payton Gendron and Brenton Tarrant, the last of whom also wrote similar style inscriptions in white font on his firearms, gear and magazines.

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 4 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I've heard breast forms can be a useful way to figure out the sizing that feels right before getting the surgery.

There are a few reasons I haven't had a BA, but one of them is that I've heard they don't last forever. Mostly though I have had to prioritize the greater sources of dysphoria. I would rather get FFS than a BA at this point, and I've had an orchi and a vaginoplasty as well. I have doubts I'll have access to surgery again, though - it doesn't seem likely.

Hopefully you can get insurance that covers it, even if it means using the exchange - that can really help. I don't know how much a BA costs, but I think it's much cheaper than a vaginoplasty, for example.

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

yes, or insurance that covers it (at least in the U.S.) - definitely not accessible to everyone, but something many people could save or work towards (esp. compared to vaginoplasty, which is more expensive and a much harder recovery).

I definitely had to change insurance to get a plan that would cover gender affirming care (I didn't get breast augmentation, but I know a girl IRL who did).

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago

yes, there's a middle ground - I needed help to understand I was trans, but I do think that information can be presented in a way that doesn't just directly violate the directive and say "hey, you're trans".

It would be nice if someday there would be a blood test or something (though of course that is also dangerous).

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 5 points 8 months ago (7 children)

there is also that middle ground where dysphoria is lifted but you don't have back problems - I just want boobs that are reasonable relative to my frame. My shoulders and rib cage are so large that my breasts don't look large enough relative to them.

either way, breast augmentation is an option

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago (8 children)

Despite his move away from the Social-National Party in 2004[28] Parubiy was frequently the target by pro-Russian media, who routinely refer to him as a Nazi, especially after the Revolution of Dignity. For example, after the Constitutional Court of Ukraine declared the Law on National Referendums unconstitutional, Parubiy cautioned against the use of referendums to manipulate the population, pointing out that Adolf Hitler also used referendums in Nazi Germany to accomplish his goals;[29] Russian media (such as RIA Novosti, RT, Zvezda, NTV, Sputnik, and others), Ukrainian pro-Russian media (112 Ukraine, NewsOne, Strana.ua, KP, and others) and Ukrainian pro-Russian politicians (such as Vadim Rabinovich and Viktor Medvedchuk) distorted Parubyi's phrase, stating that Parubiy had openly praised Hitler. It was eventually debunked by the Kharkiv Human Rights Protection Group and the media watchdog Detector Media.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andriy_Parubiy#Career

https://khpg.org//en/1536504403

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 2 points 8 months ago

why does this feel too soon 😭

[–] dandelion@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (2 children)

just made an account on hexbear so I can post here, FYI - I'm the same as foxglove and dandelion on Blahaj servers.

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