cibbecker

Seems to be fake

It's a failure basically.

Well you didn't give much info about what supposedly went wrong. What do you suspect? Maybe you should share or paraphrase what your last texts were, if you think that was where you messed up. Or anything else you think made her withdraw. Then people can actually give you advice based on that, because whether you still have a chance depends on what went wrong.

aaah yes

Put a fresh date (e.g. Mazafati or Mejool) onto a fork. Add a piece of dark chocolate. Dip it into Tahini (Sesame paste). It's soo tasty and rather healthy!

Tradition is brainwashing younger people that they should keep doing what you did even after you're gone.

Not that every tradition is bad, or that everything should be done differently. Humans learn from the previous generations, that's a fundamental of our existence. But the way some traditions are imposed onto the young despite all issues with them sucks. It's about balance and not being dogmatic, I guess.

Haha, once you get used to it, it's a piece of cake. How often do you play? Mybe don't start with the folks playing super fast.

Awesome!

I'm interested in why you thought it's not a big deal earlier, or at least didn't full on face this realization?

It surely is a hilarious idea. I'd feel somewhat sorry for the family members, but at the same time, I'd love to see this being tried.

Well said. Yes, I do feel the same way.

So, why not just step away? It depends on your attitude and your aspirations, I guess. If it's solely for your own peace of mind and if you can actually detach yourself emotionally from knowing about the evils going on around you, then yes, i'd say stepping away is a great idea. I won't judge some level of blissful ignorance.

For me personally, I kind of can't convince myself that things are fine or not my business. They are not fine and they do affect me, and I know it. So I choose to fight it, and I find peace in knowing I do my best, and that I'm just getting started. No shortage of big ideas. Also, it's a great feeling that I actually do something that matters. Even if I don't succeed in the end, I didn't just play along woth this shitshow. Also, I now have a few people I got close to that are on a similar mission, and not being alone in all this feels great.

At the same time, I did kind of step away, at least partially. I quit certain platforms and cut off some kinds of contents, and carefully balance screentime. Sometimes you just need a break and protect your sanity.

About the issues themselves, in short: I think what's needed are more coordinated efforts, with an agreed and sound strategy. We need better systems for collaborations. People need to come together and design resilient ways of organizing what they do. We do have a lot of power to bring about change, but we must join forces more, and we must dare to think outside of the estabished approches.

I'll be to FOSDEM in Brussels in two weeks. Really looking forward to connecting with like-minded people!

That's really wholesome! One has to find creative ways sometimes to push through. Glad you're better though!