RicoPeru

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are terfs actual feminists or do most transphobic women just call themselves that? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

agreed. saw a woman on twitter giving usernames of trans ppl so her fanbase could harass them.

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are terfs actual feminists or do most transphobic women just call themselves that? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
Am I a bad friend/rude for not engaging with my friends and giving one-word responses? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

this sounds far better than how OP texts

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why do transphobes mention pedophiles/compare them to pedophiles when most trans people (as do most people) hate pedophiles? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
Am I a bad friend/rude for not engaging with my friends and giving one-word responses? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
Am I a bad friend/rude for not engaging with my friends and giving one-word responses? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

apparently they think she’s pretty and give her stuff

Am I a bad friend/rude for not engaging with my friends and giving one-word responses? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 days ago

you don’t type like a 50 year old, you type like someone who’s not interested in having a conversation

is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

someone irl said it would mean my nose is big (I don’t think it is)

is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

he made a joke, i was just curious what it meant as i found it funny :3

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is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
16 comments fedilink
 

my friend and I were watching american dad and he said my nose looks like his

old texts i found from when i came out to my dad in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 days ago

of course 💕 next should i post coming out to my mom??

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would anyone like to be a mod and join Cara’s Crew? 🤑 (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

(i go by cara or rico)

if anyone would like to have some sort of leadership and join the crew in kindness, you have a chance to reply to this :3

responsibilities:

post things to keep the community active

as does every poster.

delete negativity and hatred

this is a sub for kindness

you can clean up the community when needed

remove comments containing spam or trolling if severe and harmful, and ban these users if necessary.

be in charge of things related to your language

this community is mostly english-speaking but allows users who speak any language. if you speak a language and would like to moderate for people who speak a language, you very well can. (ex: as a portuguese speaker, i can delete spam and trolling from the portuguese language).

mod rico/cara (she/him) 🤑

what was/would be the reaction of the first person you came out to as trans? in c/transgender@lemmy.ml
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

that’s so weird :( were they a gay man/straight woman?

old texts i found from when i came out to my dad in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 4 days ago (1 children)

“dad

do you remember what i said about using the name ‘cara’ with me?

i wasn’t joking

what do you mean son

well

i’ve been having dysphoria for a while

so i want to try to present as a girl 😅

if it’s okay with you, i think im trans

oh

ok 👍

i think it’ll take me some time to get used to it but if you want to be a girl and it’ll make you happier then i don’t have any problem with that

good luck with everything my daughter ❤️“

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old texts i found from when i came out to my dad (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
10 comments fedilink
 

“dad

do you remember what i said about using the name ‘cara’ with me?

i wasn’t joking

what do you mean son

well

i’ve been having dysphoria for a while

so i want to try to present as a girl 😅

if it’s okay with you, i think im trans

oh

ok 👍

i think it’ll take me some time to get used to it but if you want to be a girl and it’ll make you happier then i don’t have any problem with that

good luck with everything my daughter ❤️“

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se vocês virem uma pessoa intimidada ou sem amigos, vocês deveriam ajudar ela. vocês poderiam mudar uma vida. (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

(parece que este é o primeiro post)

odeio quando as pessoas são hostis com alguém só pq ele é “esquisito”, neurodivergente, ruim em esportes, etc.

se uma pessoa é legal além de traços como esses, então ela pode ser uma amiga incrível. como um homem com tdah, posso dizer que pessoas “esquisitas” usualmente são ótimas amigas (excluindo pessoas que são esquisitas como pervertidos)

além disso, se sentindo solitário é uma causa de depressão ou pode piorar ela. pessoas podem se sentir como ninguém entende elas, como ninguém quer ajudar elas. se uma pessoa é intimidada, isso também pode ser uma causa.

ser amável pode mudar saúde mental, vidas, e as vezes, salvar vidas!!

espalhem mais bondade 🌟

  • rico 🤑
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what was/would be the reaction of the first person you came out to as trans? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

i was transfem as a high schooler, it took a while for my parents to get used to, but i remember my dad was literally like: “ok 👍”

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be kind to the “weird” people!! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

and i don’t mean weirdos as in creeps who objectify people for example, i mean those people who kind of stand out.

most of the time, the bullied people tend to be really nice. a lot of them happen to be autistic, i’ve noticed, as someone with autism + adhd. (obviously that’s not always the case)

🌟 be kind 🌟

  • rico 🤑
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it makes me sad that some neurodivergent people i know bully other neurodivergent people and call them “the weird kids”. (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

these people i know complain that they barely have any friends and that they’re considered “the weird kids” yet bully other neurodivergent people for that reason.

as someone with autism + adhd, this just makes me so sad.

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[TOMT]”disney with buckteeth” movie? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

the movie was from the 2010s or earlier, the movie also seemed to parody/feature characters such as snow white

one of the characters had prominent front teeth.

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for the queer people who experience attraction, when was your “gay awakening”? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

i honestly think mine was sometime in 8th grade when i realized that i didn’t just admire this guy, i wanted to go out with him.

i got jealous when he jokingly flirted with guys, but at the same time hoped that he was hinting that he was queer and not just joking around.

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