Butt stuff, those harness style underwear and harnesses in general, chokers. (Nothing too bdsm-y, just the style is sexy) That heavy egirl makeup with the winged eyeliner. Filming and taking private pictures.suoer sloppy blowjobs. Fishnets. thigh high socks with the stripes.
We rarely do anything but my wife likes lace underwear as her limit, and hand stuff. Sometimes PiV.
She gives me a lot of shit and judges me for asking for these things, but on the grand scheme of things I feel like I'm not that crazy.
I find it a hard line to walk. As I said, I can't judge people as I don't know what they like or why they like it. As you said, if it's harmless fun, that's fine..
But if your kink of that you want to fuck one of your parents or hurt someone, or piss yourself while pretending to be a baby... I feel like you should probably go talk to a therapist about it, as it's possible these things come from a traumatic past.
But then, if your therapist says you're all cool and it's just a safe harmless fantasy, go watch all the incest porn and be a baby because you're all good and having fun in your own way!
Again, that's how I perceive it, and I'm sorry if anyone takes offence. There are some pretty wild kinks out there that are completely alien to my understanding of the world, let alone my sexuality. I'm quite happy to be wrong or re-educated because it's not something I know a ton about and this is all just my brain thinkings being typed out with no basis in fact or research. I'm dumb all the time and this might be one of those times.