Thanks for the context, i got curious and read halfway through the junius pamphlet cause of that

Its not complicated at all. For one its a paid service so if you can afford it do it. If you wanna do it free you have to host it yourself

• Get a Calendar app that supports CalDAV, Task app that supports WebDAV.
• you make calendars and task lists in etesync dashboard
• copy their links and paste them in the app settings of your calendar and task apps. It also supports cardDAV for contacts

Get etesync

I like the sound of it but idk if i would be willing to post on it unless there was some anonymity involved or have a self destruction mode