Infynis

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[–] Infynis@midwest.social 2 points 5 days ago

There's a list of the people reinforcing those flawed foundations in the Epstein files

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 2 points 1 week ago

Just make sure you get back to it before another project disorganizes all your screws again

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 2 points 1 week ago

It's a skill you can learn. If you're into TTRPGs, I've found that can be a great way to practice, because the format is engaging, and the nature of the game benefits from equal contributions. I try to make characters that focus on setting up other members of the party in different ways. When we're in combat, I try to involve other characters in tactics, and in roleplay, I make an effort to involve everyone at the table. GMing is especially good for this, as you want your party to be doing most of the talking, and you want everyone to be having fun.

As I've played more, and interacted in other casual social situations, I've definitely gotten better at filling an appropriate role in a conversation. I'm the host! It's my job to make sure everyone is comfortable and engaged. Usually that means asking smart questions and getting people onto topics they naturally enjoy, usually to do with their own lives. Shared interests are a bonus (and often the roots of a friendship). And it's something that I can do anywhere, even if I'm not actually hosting the gathering, because it just comes off as being genuine

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 1 points 1 week ago

I met a person like this, and married her. It's great. I never have to worry about keeping the conversation going, and can just enjoy being with her and contributing when it's natural for me

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

But someone did mention another bit of information, which I fell down a wikipedia rabbit hole on for about 2 hours! So maybe now I can read the article

Edit: I did it! I also watched two and a half YouTube videos about homesteading.

This third type describes my wife perfectly. She's had lots of other tentative diagnoses like bpd and autism, but has still been struggling to work through it all, and find an effective combination of medications. She actually takes antipsychotics, as well as a high dose of hydroxyzine as needed in emergencies

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 1 points 2 weeks ago

This is what my wife does as well. She has a really hard time getting up in the morning otherwise

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

If the US collapses in the next decade or so, we may have our chance again. Free the Caribbean!

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 1 points 2 weeks ago

Depends where you lived. Not everywhere developed the same or even any methods of counting time below day/night

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 1 points 2 weeks ago

I'm taking 30, and my doctor told me that's that max they can prescribe. I'm ~175lbs, and this seems like the right amount for me. I have really high tolerances to other substances, like alcohol, and caffeine, so I expected I'd need a higher dosage, and we arrived at 30 pretty quickly.

Having a smaller dose to take later in the day sounds nice. I often feel my meds wear off a few hours before bed, when I'd like to be focusing on a hobby, which I'd love their help on. I think I'll ask my doctor about breaking up my dosage into two at my next appointment.

If 10mg feels like it's working for you, and you think the 5mg boost will be enough, stick with it and don't worry about comparing to other people's dosages. For me, my meds working feels like more energy throughout the week, and more ability to focus on and start tasks that otherwise could have bored or paralyzed me. I'd recommend you focus on getting to something like that with your meds if you can, while minimizing side effects (I've only ever had some slightly increased emotional volotility in the first couple weeks I first started n Adderall).

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 5 points 2 months ago

A couple years ago I was a field technician for an ISP in Michigan. There was a customer connected to this terminal reporting their service down.

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 1 points 2 months ago

A brewer that is trying to make their beer increasingly addictive is both a cool magical villain, and a fun modern metaphor!

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 19 points 2 months ago

You are being abused. Get your meds.

 

I wanted to share this project, Ultra Mega, that's being worked on by one of our community members here in Lansing. This is by the creator of the Lansing Independent Comics and Zine Fest, which was new this year, and my friends and I really enjoyed.

The goal is to promote local art through a risograph printing workshop available to the community. Especially now, I believe supporting local creatives is incredibly important. Not only does it enrich the lives of everyone involved, it could be a crucial tool in the fight against fascism. The current administration continues to habitually violate the Constitution, and dismantle our scientific and social institutions. Independent media could soon be our only reliable source of knowledge.

I proudly support Ultra Mega in Lansing

https://gofund.me/60c278ca6

 

I wanted to share this project, Ultra Mega, that's being worked on by one of our community members here in Lansing. This is by the creator of the Lansing Independent Comics and Zine Fest, which was new this year, and my friends and I really enjoyed.

The goal is to promote local art through a risograph printing workshop available to the community. Especially now, I believe supporting local creatives is incredibly important. Not only does it enrich the lives of everyone involved, it could be a crucial tool in the fight against fascism. The current administration continues to habitually violate the Constitution, and dismantle our scientific and social institutions. Independent media could soon be our only reliable source of knowledge.

I proudly support Ultra Mega in Lansing

https://gofund.me/60c278ca6

 

I'm turning 27 tomorrow, so this is kind of like a birthday present. It's definitely a good feeling, because it means I haven't been lying to myself for months, which I was afraid of.

I'd been trying hard not to panic all day, just because I knew I'd be getting the call this afternoon. I'm fortunate to be off work, so I'm stoned with my cat in front of the AC. My doctor started off by describing her appraisal of my condition, and I started crying. I stopped her part way through to tell her how much of a relief it was to hear her express back to me, what I had been terrified, for two weeks, that I hadn't explained adequately.

It was actually kind of funny, hearing her tell me all these things like they were news. But it's official. I may have high logical and reasoning ability, but when presented with large amounts of information, or when having to absorb it over long periods of time, I become inattentive. I have ADHD.

That matches up with my two and a half years of college. With my grades in high school, that fell off over the last couple years. With the constant weight of weariness I feel clocking in at work each day.

As a 27 year old man, with a gorgeous fiance, a high skill job, and a great group of friends (who will definitely managed to schedule another D&D session someday), it's hard for me to feel like there's anything wrong with me. I think, getting officially diagnosed just makes me believe, even more strongly, that humanity can only improve by learning about each other's differences. I'm glad that a space like this exists, on a free, open platform, for people like us to share our experiences.

I'd love to hear how anyone else felt about their diagnosis. I'd also love any tips from my elders (or youngers), on what to do next! Sounds like my PCP can prescribe me Adderall now, so that's a pretty cool unlock. What I'm most unsure about is getting a therapist. Has anyone tried remote therapy? I'm generally a recluse, so that's probably the option I'd favor if there are good options out there.

Thank you!

 

 

 

The original:

 

The most successful Plot Diseases keep their hosts alive, feeding on their suffering for as long as possible.

 

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Infynis@midwest.social to c/thepoliceproblem@lemmy.world
 

As we have been seeing the police report that they apprehended someone they claim is related to the United Health shooting, I thought this would be a good time to share this video again.

Watch on Youtube

 

Howdy folks! I'm new to ADHD spaces, still in the process of getting a diagnosis, but I've been doing some thinking about how I handle energy for tasks, and I was wondering if it would resonate with anyone else.

My partner and I have cats, which means we have to clean their litter box regularly. I struggle a lot with executive dysfunction, and so does she, so sometimes that's challenging. Recently though, we cat sat for a friend that had a Litter Genie. I have to say, I love this thing. We bought one immediately. It's basically just a little trashcan, but it automatically bags and stores dirty litter to be disposed of later.

For me, this was a game changer. I don't know why, but not having to deal with throwing out the litter at the same time makes it so much easier. Individually, cleaning the litter boxes, and taking out the trash, are easy, one spoon tasks. But only with the Litter Genie. If I have to worry about taking out the trash too, it becomes so much more than just one spoon more expensive. That's what made me think of sporks.

Because throwing away the cat litter after cleaning the litter box is really nothing. It's just the fact that I have to think about it that makes it harder. It's the complexity, not the amount, so it's not more spoons really, it's a different spoon, a spork. I think I'm going to start using this terminology with my partner. When discussing chores, we'll be able to mention spork tasks, for things we might need a little help with, or that we could use some brainstorming on how to tackle.

Do you have any simple things that feel like sporks to you? If so, do you have ways you break them down to make them easier? I'd especially love something for dishes lol

 
 

A lot of memes I across the Internet are about how everyone, no matter how old, is just a kid inside, trying to figure out what's going on, which is something I definitely identify with.

But every once in a while, something happens that does actually make me feel like a grown-up. It's usually small, and kind of silly, but it's fun, and I thought people might want to share theirs.

For me, most recently, it was realizing I like Greek yogurt now. It was trendy when I was like 12, and I couldn't stand it then, but I bought some on a whim, and now I keep the fridge stocked. That drastic change in my tastes took me aback momentarily, but I thought it was a nice fun little milestone.

How about you?

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