Your 'problem' is thinking that you must fall in love in order to start a relationship. Falling in love might work in the beginnen, but makes it harder in to long run when it wears off. After that you need to invest time and effort to maintain the relationship.
I'm currently in an 8 year relationship with the woman of my dreams. I was happy not falling in love immediately, because love makes blind resulting in making wrong decisions (own experience). After a while I started to appreciate who she was and what she meant for me, then the feeling of love kicked in. This feeling goes up and down which it should, because being in love all the time is something you really don't want.
Get out there and talk to people, be honest about your feelings and I'm sure you will find the correct person to share your life with and start a family. Love is nice, but not necessary. Good luck.
RIP Apollo