In my experience a women's wide is akin to a men's regular.
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Skunks are common city animals, so it's a little more surprising to me that you haven't encountered then before. But for the most part they're pretty chill little guys, and forage widely -- so seeing one in your yard doesn't mean they've taken up residence. They eat grubs mostly (which is great for lawns and gardens).
As others have said, as long as you're not getting up in their faces, you shouldn't have any problems.
Haha yeah it's pretty nuts. There are some great neopets write-ups on r/hobbydrama. Plus my favourite Jellyneo article of all time: https://www.jellyneo.net/?go=comments&post=14373
I had to provide the username, the birthday on the account, and the original email -- I don't recall what else. But here's the general info & you can use the "create a ticket" button at the bottom.
https://classic.support.neopets.com/hc/en-us/categories/17732911148045
That's what I've been doing. Order of priority: