this post was submitted on 05 Sep 2026
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inb4 the influx of "not all parents are irresponsible/iT's JuSt ThE PoOrS" comments from the parents who will inevitably find this and feel compelled to preach -- we know. I'm sure you specifically are gold star parents who extensively thought about how you would give your kids good and stable lives before you had them. But there are millions of others who didn't and whose kids are growing up into terribly damaged and traumatized adults who may well perpetuate the cycle of generational trauma.

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[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 9 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

A generation trend practiced by checks notes every generation in human history.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

The trend isn't simply having children.

The trend is putting absolutely no forethought into having children, and doing so to get attention and validation from strangers on the internet.

That's what makes it a trend, a trend being something common/popular on the net, on social media.

The concept here is that the narcissism amplifier that is social media promotes more people having kids simply so they can get views and the second hand admiration of strangers... which then produces traumatized children who will learn and internalize the narcissistic abuse patterns of their parents as normal.

Every generation in human history has not had to deal with the proliferation of black mirrors, and hyperoverstimulation and mass parasocialization.

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Setting aside how that's not what the OP says, do you... uh... have evidence for that?

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago

That is what it says, learn how to read.

For evidence, go onto corpo social media.

[–] vrek@programming.dev 19 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not going into the bad parents aspect but I doubt this is a "generational trend", you are just entering the stage of life where a lot of people want that. I'm guessing you are between early/mid twenties to mid thirties? That's when people mostly have babies. It's not a "generation" it's just where you and who you surround yourself with are in your/their life progress.

You may not want kids, and that's ok. Some people do especially in that age range.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 hours ago

The trend isn't having kids.

The trend is having kids so you can post the baby shower to social media for attention and validation from strangers.

That is generational, as social media has not existed untill quite recently in human history.

The OP pic is specifically describing people who are simply generating content for social media where that content is 'I had a baby!'

You entirely missed the point, the operative concept, the behavior being called out.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Are the fire baby showers... lit?

😎 Yeeeeeaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh

[–] tacosanonymous@mander.xyz 3 points 3 hours ago

Especially when the gender reveal sparks fire disaster.

[–] Waterpumpee@lemmus.org 0 points 7 hours ago

Hit n miss. Most ppl i know dont do soc media. Then there's our first midwive saying we should bring the child to commercial advertisement photoshoots to make cash.