Yesterday was my first time getting insulted as a fag for wearing a dress 🤭. Good thing I can roll my eyes, laugh about it and shrug it off. I'm doing fine, no worries~
Trans
General trans community.
Rules:
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Follow all blahaj.zone rules
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All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
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Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on
lol somebody saw me yesterday and made that whistling sound that some people make when they see an attractive woman walk by ...
not sure what to think of it.
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oh and today the cashier smiled at me. she's an older charming woman who has probably too much time on her hands and idk i don't know why i'm writing all this.
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could we pls put this behind a spoiler?
Yea i agree
Earlier this week my roomate saw a cute girl across the street from our place, then she realized it was me 😂🥰
Not great. I feel like everyone is happy ignoring the fact I'm trans. Especially if it makes them feel awkward. I'm really struggling with holding the reality of being trans, and that being actually a fairly normal thing, and the reality that f&f can act like I'm not, that I don't need support, that I can just carry on being who they want to see me as (cis).
It's really exhausting and it gives me panic attacks.