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why is this not one way or the other?

addendum: wow, thanks everyone. I truly never knew it was a British vs. American spelling thing.

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[–] gegil@sopuli.xyz 165 points 2 days ago (21 children)

Gray is a color, while grey is a colour.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Gray is the color of aluminum, grey is the colour of aluminium

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[–] quick_snail@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago
[–] fullsquare@awful.systems 94 points 2 days ago (8 children)

grey - 🇬🇧 english (traditional)

gray - 🇺🇸 english (simplified)

[–] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 27 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This is correct, but for some reason in my head I think of gray as warm toned (like with yellow or brown undertones) and grey as cool toned (like with blue or purple undertones).

I have no idea why my brain has decided this is the way.

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[–] trackball_fetish@lemmy.wtf 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm splitting hairs but I always read grey - 🇨🇦 english (eh)

[–] nonentity@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago

gray - 🇺🇸 english (simplified)

grey - 🇬🇧 english (traditional)

gr*y - 🇦🇺 english (explicit)

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[–] TheFermentalist@reddthat.com 51 points 2 days ago (6 children)

E is the European version, A is the American version. This sounds trite, but is true, and makes it simple to know which one to use

[–] Codpiece@feddit.uk 49 points 2 days ago (6 children)

E is English. A is American.

[–] quick_snail@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This makes the Scottish very mad

[–] Codpiece@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I’m sorry.

But the Scottish want to claim something English as theirs? When did that start?

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[–] adespoton@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 days ago (15 children)

. . . Unless you’re in the majority of the English speaking world, which includes India, Canada, Australia and New Zealand.

Of course, grey is the appropriate spelling for all of those but Canada, which uses both.

[–] squirrel@cake.kobel.fyi 24 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Canada, which uses both

græy /s

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[–] Hiro8811@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

It's pronounced gay ya twats

[–] spacegoat@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I know that this is “no stupid questions” but it boggles the mind that people post in forums when the answer is either yes/no, or a single sentence explanation available in a web search.

[–] zeppo@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

we should just not have Lemmy at all and only read news articles, wikipedia and talk to ourselves

[–] Waraugh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago

I’m glad you asked. This is something I never realized how often I have brief flashes of curiosity about before I yolo it and never bothered looking up. As soon as I saw the title I was looking forward to reading what people had to say.

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[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago
[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 21 points 2 days ago (5 children)

It is spelled grey in correct English. In the USA, they like spelling it gray.

[–] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

All language is made up. There is no ‘correct’.

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Standardisation of language is not pointless. Shared standards serve concrete functions:

  • When 8 billion people write "colour" the same way, you don't pause to decode variants
  • Technical manuals, legal documents, medical instructions need precision: ambiguity costs lives
  • Cross-generational understanding: Shakespeare's English is already hard without adding modern variation to the mix
  • Standardized spelling keeps homophones distinct (their/there/they're)

Standardisation of language isn't about one version being inherently right. It's about shared agreement that enables function at scale.

[–] kunaltyagi@programming.dev 2 points 1 day ago

Here to give you a boost away from the downvotes.

Lawsuits are won and lost over grammar and spellings. Constitutional crisis happen over the question: is the text to be understood in the time period of writing or reading (because the meaning of words shifts over time)

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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 days ago

No we don't. Grey is the only way.

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[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I think it's a USA vs European English thing.

I prefer the 'grey' spelling though, even though 'gray' is most common in the states.

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[–] lillardfair@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I know it's an American vs other English speaking countries thing, but as an American I can honestly never remember which one we are. I always used to look it up, but now I just shoot from the hip and assume I'm right, which feels the most American way to approach it.

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[–] degenerate_neutron_matter@fedia.io 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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