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Hello fellow autists and other folk! I'm asking you to share your tips on how to deal with the summer, the Sun, the heat and light, bugs, all of this while trying to have good time? Or at least a decent time?

I happen to live above the polar circle so here the Sun doesn't set at all for almost few months so yeah, there is plenty of light unless it rains or is cloudy - luckily that's pretty often too. Anyways, what has helped me;

  • finding good, non-stinky sunscreen (Änglamark SPF50) and finding odorless mosquito repellant ("Free")
  • I need glasses and I have very light sensitive eyes so prescription sunglasses are the only thing that make it possible for me to do any gardening or reading outdoors etc
  • cool/cold showers (/or swimming) to wash off the SWEAT
  • wearing loose, cotton clothing and wearing a cotton scarf to cover my head and hair, this might make me look like a grandma/child but at least I'm comfy!
  • blackout curtains in bedroom to keep the light out, but also on other windows to keep the house cooler
  • freezer stocked with popsicles and fridge with alcohol-free beer because my autistic fiancé will stop drinking water once it gets too hot.. (JUST DRINK SOMETHING!)
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[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

I try to not step outside as much at physically possible.

This is a bad idea and not healthy.

[–] nebulahhh@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 4 points 21 hours ago

Understandable.

[–] stylusmobilus@aussie.zone 4 points 19 hours ago
[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

By not going out, wearing less and less clothes until police comes and sunglasses.

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 3 points 21 hours ago

I still feel this weird pressure, "must go outdoors when it's pretty YOU'RE WASTING THE PRETTY DAYS!!" I'm trying to learn out of it and only go outdoors when I feel like it. Sunny days can be great for chilling and gaming, cloudy day is far better for outdoor chores.

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Honestly, maybe I'm weird, but I love the sun and feeling a little hot. Could be because my body is otherwise usually very bad keeping warm.

I do hate most sun screen, but I can live with the stuff that doesn't irritate my skin. Blackout curtains are always a necessity for me, but I do live in the city, so that's not a major difference. I always dehydrate easily, regardless of temperature, so I always need extra salt and water, so not that different.

But as a bonus the air is more moist (especially without the heater) so my throat is more comfortable. And I prefer fresh air over recycled air, so it's a bonus when I can open the windows.

The biggest bonus though is shorts, short sleeves, no socks, and open shoes, and I'm still warm enough. I dislike the feeling of most clothing, especially on my feet, but really I'd love to be naked all of the time if my body warmed itself properly.

[–] grammaticerror@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Omg right? Summer means sandals and bare toes and that means summer is king. I walked around yesterday feeling sun on my skin and it felt like I was recharging spirit energy. And my regular walking sandals are so light now it's like being barefoot. Ahh, heaven.

[–] retrolasered@feddit.uk 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I got a straw/paper trilby and its been a game changer. The hat, some loose linen clothes and sandals have made me much more heat tolerant than ive ever been

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 1 points 16 hours ago

I should try to get some linen clothes for summer for sure!

[–] chairlegoftruth@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Arm yourself and avoid the sun when it comes for you?

[–] chairlegoftruth@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Knock the sucker right outta the sky with a shell.

[–] Lexam@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I stay hydrated and stay covered!

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 5 points 21 hours ago

Looking very sensible! :)

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No offense all defense. In the subtropics so the sun is very direct. Mineral sunblock always. Hat or umbrella when walking. Light linen jacket to cover my arms. I don't usually use sunglasses but my regular glasses have UV protection.

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 3 points 21 hours ago

Sounds very smart!

[–] Twinklebreeze@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

ADHD here, not autistic. Hope you don't mind my input. I work as an Arborist climbing trees, and I try my best not to let the sun touch me at all when I'm at work. I wear long sleeves outdoor shirts. I think the ones I have now were made for fishing. They are spf rated, and handle my sweat well. Dry quick, etc. Hat and gloves also. For the end of day I keep a dry tshirt to change into so I'm not sitting in a soggy shirt. I've worked outside full-time for 8 years and I had critically low vitamin d. But it makes being outside in the heat bearable and keeps my skin safe from sun damage.

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Wow, vitamin D defiency while working outdoors.. You're taking amazing care of your skin and avoiding those UVs! I personally can't use shirts like that, but that is amazing tip for other people. Would you mind sharing the brand name or such, so it could be more easy to find them or similar products? :)

[–] Twinklebreeze@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

I got them at Costco years ago, and any branding on it has worn off.

Yo, those shirts for fishing fucking rule, mine had a hood and I love being so protected and breezy. I wish it didn't advertise that it is intended for fishing on it but 🤷‍♀️

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Clothing:

  • Head: Have a panama straw hat in a fedora style (only wear that when my clothing style fits)
  • House A: Jinbei (It's a japanese lounge set made to be very breathable. Has also cutouts under the armpits to be even more airy)
  • House B: Shorts and t-shirt
  • Outside A: T-shirt + jeans shorts
  • Outside B (at work): T-shirt + long trousers (usally jeans)

Cooling:

  • Foldable fan (japanese style)
  • Electric usb fan + usb-power adapter or usb powerbank

Survive at home:

  • Day: Close the blinds while the sun is out
  • Night: Open everything you can and pray the house cools down fast enough

Edit:
We don't have that many mosquitos so that is bearable. But I also have blinds on my window to sleep with it open during the night.
During the day they are gone.

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Very good, lot of what I do too. Here we get crazy amount of mosquitoes, so all our windows have nets. I keep them open always when it's cooler outside than it's inside. I love sleeping with a window open.. :)

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Same.
If I can, I have my window open all night long.
My record low in my room was 12°C.
Chilly but blissfull sleep :D

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I sleep much better in cooler too! During the winter our bedroom is usually 14-16 degrees in Celcius, so I have an extra thick blanket and sleep very, very well. It's hard to adjust to the summer warmth even with a window open. 20 in Celcius feels very hot even with lighter blanket..

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Couldnt imagine sleeping around the arctic circle.
24/7 day or night/twilight + humid hot summers with constant mosquitos sound like hell.

I am already getting devoured my mosquitos at home.
(If I am in the same room as my mother, I'll attract 95% of them. And the other 5% will either annoy me or maybe puncture her)

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Took me about 23 years to get used to this, to find the tools that work for me. The darkness in the autumn/winter and the light in the spring/summer literally makes the local people die younger. It's very stressful, I absolutely feel like going a bit crazy when the Sun comes back.. And then again, once it starts going away in the autumn. Our pets feel it too, I don't got any proof like that, but they just do. Eating less, more wild, sleeps at different times..

I think it depends a lot on your blood type how much the mosquitoes go after you? At least the locals here say that, and I think it makes a sense because it is visible that others just get bit more. I think I'm a bit allergic to mosquitoes, the first weeks make me look like I had chicken pox.. After that, no issues really. But really, wouldn't change a thing!

(Oh, I haven't even mentioned yet the neighbor's reindeers that WANT TO EAT MY STRAWBERRIES?? Oh well, in the end of the day, reindeers are hungry too so ehh.. Still wouldn't change thing.)

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Also have strawberries. 6th generation since I have first bought them and propagated them since then.
Have bought a blueberry bush last year (should be a Vaccinium corymbosum. Already got the first 6 berries on the bush ripening).

Regarding the mosquitos: I remember it being a mix of body chemistry and how much CO₂ you exhale.
But I can't remember it exactly anymore.
I am just ~~mad~~ salty that I get all while my mother receives none while in the same room >:(

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 2 points 16 hours ago

Cool! I have gotten my strawberries from a local lady who has created her own strain that thrives on clay ground. And no blueberries here, but every year I pick 10-20 litres of bilberries from forests and then make them into jams and juices. And some pies and muffins too, of course. Important source for vitamins in the winter!

[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sun glasses, hats, I really only need to protect my eyes. Summer in the PNW is glorious

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 1 points 21 hours ago

I get that, I got very sensitive eyes! Finally getting my first ever prescription sunglasses was a truly life changing day.. Being outdoors turned pleasant in seconds!

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I do many of the things you listed and I also treat it being too hot as inclement weather. By that I mean I plan outdoor activities for the cooler parts of the day and come inside if it's getting too warm. I don't plan activities where there is no shade. I've made the mistake of going to the beach and spending the next day feeling really sick from all the UV.

ETA: sorry if this is super obvious, but it wasn't to me: some places are just more pleasant in the summer than others. My backyard fucking sucks most of the time, except this little screened in hut I have because I live in a swamp. Lots and lots of mosquitos. But if I drive half an hour away I can walk along a river with lots of wind and no bugs (but also little shade so I need to plan ahead.)

I also carry an insulated water bottle with me, one that had a straw but also seals completely. I don't care that I look like a trend following white woman, I need to have water with me in case I am able to force myself to drink (I also struggle with that lol?)

[–] manuremy@sopuli.xyz 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds smart! I try to plan my days too by the weather, but sometimes I work in a place that has only outdoor tasks..

I struggle with remembering to drink too, even though even a slight dehydration (feeling dry) causes me great discomfort. Even if I remember the damn water bottle, I might not remember to actually drink from it. :D

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

I hear you on the drinking. Even if my mouth is so dry it hurts I sometimes find it hard to drink. Carrying the water bottle is super important because I want to take advantage of any time when I'm wanting to.

Edit: one more thing - how is your work about heat safety? I work in industrial maintenance/construction (but not doing the construction, mostly testing) and a lot of the safety program is about weather including heat. Do you feel comfortable asking? They might have suggestions and if you make them aware it might be like, "oh yeah no one said they were hot so we didn't think about it..."