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I'm super nervous about starting HRT but it has been on my mind for so many years

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[–] gegil@sopuli.xyz 37 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Having own life and living it however you want is more important than living life of another person just because society forces you to do so.

[–] magic_smoke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Yeah but also I'm close enough to being federally employed that I night get fired if I do.

I dream of our investors falling into shit covered spike pits daily.

[–] not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 3 weeks ago

the way i solved this was on my job hunt i applied under my new name and pronouns and mentioned in like the third sentence that its not my original but preferred way of being called, so they know right away.

it serves as a asshole filter, but makes job hunt even harder of course

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't think my boss would be happy to find out I been taking HRT for over two years. Fortunately, cis people apparently pay almost no attention other than chasers.

[–] magic_smoke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Same hat. Me and my partner are kind of baffled by it at this point.

[–] voxthefox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Part of it is Trans blindness, but also people are just terrible at noticing shit that changes slowly. I lost a third of my body weight over a couple years and literally no one at my in office job noticed.

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world 28 points 3 weeks ago

Anyone who calls the Trans community "sissies" has no idea what strength it takes

I moved from the middle of one of the gayest cities in the world to somewhere beautiful, but definitely different

I dress a little differently, I still dress with flair when it suits, but definitely less "extra"

I salute our Trans friends, and I admire them because in many places they are choosing "unsafety" over the easy road.

The next generation will hopefully have it easier, and I hope they know how much was given for them

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I still really don’t like what I see in the mirror every day. But now I no longer think myself a deviant, which is nice. The only thing different I would do is to start transitioning much earlier in life.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Yeah :/ the best time to start was before puberty, but fortunately the second best time is as soon as you could!

[–] gegil@sopuli.xyz 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Indeed. Its never too late.

Despite me being male and not taking a single gram of hormones, does not prevent me from being genderfluidic femboy/transgirl cutie.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

Love that for you!

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

HRT not only changed my body, I also transitioned from being sad and depressed to being happy and loving my life. I thank my younger self every day for not giving up

[–] Sarothazrom@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

trans people are the strongest people on earth.

[–] edg@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Guess I'm still growing because I feel pretty weak 😞

[–] Sarothazrom@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

and yet i feel your trans strength so powerfully that it leaks through my screen 🥺♥️

[–] youcantreadthis@quokk.au 4 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] Tiresia@slrpnk.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

All trans. They reproduce asexually through crystalline nest budding, their genders are purely cultural.

[–] youcantreadthis@quokk.au 3 points 2 weeks ago

Thinking about Loki this tracks

[–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

the jotun dare not challenge the dolls

[–] chattre@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 weeks ago

hehe yes yes...

the pictures, the self-comfort, the mindset, it's all worth everything I have :3

[–] EmptyAsparagus@piefed.social 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

OP: just do it. sounds like its the right thing for you. nothing can substitute feeling okay in your own body.

but also I dont know your situation. hope it works out

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

That sounds like a plot to a shounen manga series...

[–] youcantreadthis@quokk.au 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Um excuse me that's a really damaging stereotype not all trans people

[–] magic_smoke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Damn must be nice to not have to worry about getting fired for transitioning.

[–] youcantreadthis@quokk.au 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yes that is the part I meant

[–] magic_smoke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Wow, holy shit am I a fucking moron.

That took an embarrassing amount of time even after your second comment to get.

Sorry.

[–] youcantreadthis@quokk.au 1 points 2 weeks ago

Its fine this is the account I made after getting banned from another server for apparently agreeing with the mod who banned me not once but twice this is where I surrender legibility accept screaming into the void communication is dead getting it eventually is better than expected