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[โ€“] Soulifix@piefed.world 6 points 1 day ago

I'm going to rightfully assume you're asking this out of bad faith.

[โ€“] luthis@lemmy.nz 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's not my thing, but I can respect the patience and skill it takes to make preserves. Home made jam is often better than store bought, so I expect the same applies to self preserved fruits etc.

[โ€“] Miller@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Sugar is used as a preservative but until you make your own jam you have no conception of how much sugar is used, jam is just jelly for adults.

[โ€“] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Its equal parts weight of the fruit and the sugar, generally.

But it tastes amazing!

[โ€“] daannii@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I made jam once . Raspberry. After realizing it was like 3 or 4 cups of sugar per 1 cup of mashed berries cooked down. I tried to find alternative ways to doing it. I used 1/3 less sugar and substituted with Splenda.

It was a very tart jam though still edible.

Probably won't ever make it again. I don't recommend trying to use less sugar to make it healthier.

I just happened to live somewhere with a bunch of raspberry bushes then.

It's not cheap to do it either. Cheaper than store bought. Probably . But probably not by much. Sugar, jars, lids, and pectin.

And if the fruit ain't free, it's definitely not cheaper than store bought.

[โ€“] Lumidaub@feddit.org 12 points 2 days ago

In my learned opinion, they are very similar, in multiple aspects, to people who are pro-breathing.


I have no idea what you're asking. Self-preservation is fundamental to life. Not being "pro-self preservation" would be to be suicidal, at least passively.

[โ€“] Mesa@programming.dev 8 points 2 days ago

There are three types of people:

[โ€“] Maeve@kbin.earth 3 points 2 days ago

If it involves genocide, fuck the genocidal, religioethnonationalists.

[โ€“] kindnesskills@literature.cafe 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What do you mean by pro-self preservation?

[โ€“] Allah@piefed.world 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

uhhhh it's a spectrum,

At its healthiest, self-preservation can mean:

setting boundaries, avoiding unnecessary risk, saving money, protecting mental health, leaving harmful situations, thinking long-term, resisting pressure to self-sacrifice for approval.

But self-preservation can also become limiting if it turns into:

chronic fear, emotional isolation, refusal to trust anyone, avoiding all vulnerability, stepping on others to stay secure, never taking meaningful risks.

[โ€“] anothermember@feddit.uk 8 points 2 days ago

Isn't that just evolutionary developed instinct? I can't imagine there would be anybody who's not pro-self preservation on those terms.