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submitted 11 months ago by HurlingDurling@lemm.ee to c/privacy@lemmy.ml

I honestly feel defeated right now, it feels like currently it's impossible to truly stay private online unless one is willing to move to a cabin in the woods with no internet and you stop using tech all together and truly become a ghost and stay offline. Can someone help me feel like everything I am currently doing is actually making a difference? Because right now it doesn't feel like it.

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[-] mkulima@baraza.africa 32 points 11 months ago

And even if you ‘exit’ to the woods, you’ll be easy to note, just by your absence (When the majority of the population are present, it is easier to note who is absent).

But we have to keep pushing back about these absurdities.

[-] VolunTerry@monero.town 3 points 10 months ago

Precisely. Avoiding the pitfalls of modern tech and actively pursuing privacy strangely and conversely makes you stand out more, not less.

[-] riceandbeans@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago

I totally agree we need to push back, especially when this information can be used for more than just selling you toothpaste.

https://gizmodo.com/how-to-get-an-abortion-keep-personal-information-safe-1848874362

[-] Anticorp@lemmy.world 30 points 10 months ago

consumers feel companies hold discounts hostage behind data tracking

Unfortunately it's even worse than that. They hold MSRP hostage. They're not offering any discounts for tracking you. They've marked everything up, and are only willing to give you the regular price if they can track you and reap that extra data money. Otherwise they're going to charge you extra for getting in the way of their second revenue stream. Apparently running an honest business isn't enough for corporations now. Squeeze blood from a turnip, or GTFO.

[-] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 30 points 10 months ago

Just give fake data for everything you are not legally required to give your real info for.

[-] nyandere@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)
[-] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I guess it depends on your age and how old you look but even when I did have to show Id it was just that, show it to the cashier. I wouldn't let any random person scan it.

That being said I could totally go without alcohol if needs be.

[-] VolunTerry@monero.town 17 points 10 months ago

Anyone got a line on a good cabin? Tell the realtor not to call or text me though. I'll only be responding via telegram (not THAT Telegram, dummy) delivered by horse and rider.

[-] TurtleTourParty@midwest.social 8 points 10 months ago

It might be better to use a carrier pigeon so the rider doesn't know where you live.

[-] VolunTerry@monero.town 1 points 10 months ago

Oh, good thought!

[-] BearOfaTime@lemm.ee 15 points 11 months ago

It's interesting to me to see articles about this now, when the first rewards card I saw (every bit of 20 years ago) it was obvious why they would give you such steep discounts for using nothing more than a free card.

[-] archomrade@midwest.social 14 points 10 months ago

We are absolutely sleepwalking into the worst possible tech futures. It's so ubiquitous now that even if you're able to explain to someone how bad things are, trying to avoid this type of data collection would almost take Edward Snowden - level planning and obsession, so people just kind of give up before they even start.

The truth is that even the small actions you can take help make your data a little less valuable. They're collecting so much data from so many people, that they really don't have any easy way of verifying the data in your profile. So while there's essentially no way to go back to when you had NO data, the accuracy and relevance of the data can be soured so that their use-cases for it are less successful. Assuming you're already using an adblock or VPN to do most of your browsing, the biggest things are phone app data collection and purchases through a credit card via online portals as well as in-person. If you can avoid those, most of what they use the data for is a lot less successful. I would also avoid social media apps or sites where login is required, as they can scrape data on how long you look at any given image or ad with a pretty high degree of accuracy.

If you're dead-set on perfection, you're bound to feel helpless. But you should feel good about the little steps you take that 80-90% of people aren't, because you're that much harder to target via your data footprint.

[-] yamanii@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago

Reminds me how a popular pharmacy here won't give you the real market price of medicine until you give them your national ID number, if you don't they are horrendously jacked up.

[-] AtmaJnana@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago

Here we just skip straight to the horrendously jacked up prices.

[-] MonkderZweite@feddit.ch 5 points 10 months ago

Just disable wifi and bt if you get out of the house.

[-] Kekzkrieger@feddit.de 9 points 10 months ago

and pay in cash always everywhere.

If they accept no cash no business for me.

[-] Roopappy@lemmy.ml 7 points 10 months ago

I've resisted making an account at Walgreens for years and years. The last time I went in there, the prices for things I wanted were literally double if I didn't give them a rewards number. Fucking ridiculous.

[-] Kekzkrieger@feddit.de 1 points 10 months ago

yeah man then u know what this data is worth to them.

Its a shit choice between paying with your money vs paying with your data.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 10 months ago

Don't forget the face mutilation

[-] VolunTerry@monero.town 1 points 10 months ago

Smart advice. Also use Monero online or off where you can.

[-] ExLisper@linux.community 3 points 10 months ago

My take is that they don't track you for fun. They track you to sell you shit. Most people buy what they see in ads and believe fake promotions so this is a good business model.

Best way to stay out is not to hide absolutely everything. It's to block ads and don't buy so much stuff. Obviously don't give out data you don't have to, block trackers, use privacy tools. But don't feel bad if some data gets out. You will never block everything and a lot of it is not that important if you're not playing the game.

[-] wincing_nucleus073@lemm.ee 2 points 10 months ago

Just use cash or prepaid. Simple.

this post was submitted on 11 Dec 2023
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