Let me put it this way: is your nose stuffed and runny?
If you can breathe normally right now, take a moment to appreciate having clear nostrils. Breathe it in. Let it out. Isn’t that nice?
That’s what having a reliable car is like.
this post was submitted on 13 May 2026
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Yeah this for real. As somebody who does my own repairs it hit me the other day how nice it was that I haven't had to crawl around on the ground and fix some bullshit for a while now that I have a car that is less than 20 years old.
I like crawling around on the ground so I took a perfectly reliable car and ruined it for 90% of driving.
But that other 10% is maximum fun
That's me with my old gti. Never again with the coilovers haha.
Fun fact: Mine is also a GTI and once I swap the timing chain and get her to pass emissions on a 3” downpipe I’ll be adding coilovers!
Nice I had 3" turbo back on mine but I spent the money for the 42dd with the cats on it so I didn't have any issues. The fun of the coilovers expires pretty quick if it's a dd on Midwest roads.
Yeah, my electric car was in the shop for 3 days and I didn't realize how much I got used to not needing to get gas or how much I liked it until I had to drive a base model gas car. It made me appreciate my car again.
Can I ask how bad your prior car was? When I was driving a shitbox, not only did it look like hell (giving me anxiety about dating), but it was very unreliable. I had the ability to fix most things, but it meant unplanned use of time and expense for tools and parts. It was a constant source of anxiety whether the car would start and I'd make it to work on time or have to pivot to make sure I could take care of adult responsibilities. Forget about road trips. Thats just asking for trouble. So when I finally got a decent car in both appearance and function, it was a huge point of pride and relief.
If your prior car was decent enough, then not having a large reaction to a slightly better car is perfectly normal, I would think.
Wasn't necessarily bad just old and small for a tall family and lacked a lot of things like wheel controls etc and it had 89bhp in 2009 so it was most likely down on power as well, had good miles though aha
Honestly I love when I get to this point for big purchases. The point where I stop babying my phone or laptop, or when I stop slowing down to a crawl when taking turns in my car. Just feels so freeing to stop thinking of these things as investments and more as tools.
I kept my old car until I couldn’t stand it and inspections were coming up with costly repairs needed. The ac stopped working, I was playing music through an amfm transmitter. It worked alright otherwise. New car (was pre owned but certified) has Bluetooth to connect my phone, drives better, has working ac again and some nice safety features. I’m hoping I can keep the car going for 10 or more years until I need to find a replacement again. I suspect next car will not be as drastic an improvement unless catastrophic things happen with my current car.
I think I get it: you were looking for that dopamine rush and suddenly discovered that you're not a traditional consumer. Be glad, it means that you're unlikely to become addicted to stuff like that.
I think it all depends on the reason why you bought the car. When my last cars transmission went I figured I should get a new car for the reliability and a hybrid as my commute was long. It was nice to have a new car, but as you said: driving is driving. What really made the difference for me was seeing how I only had to fill the tank once a week or week and a half for $20, and now that I'm closer to work it's only once a month.
Just having a new car is cool and all, and there's peace of mind for having reliability, but if there is a more specific reason why you bought this car you might find more enjoyment from reflecting on that aspect. :)
If you want to feel good about it, look for the little things it does better. The seats are more comfy, it is more reliable, the sound system is better, the traction control is good, etc..
At the risk of financial ruin, driving somewhere for just for fun, dinner next town over or something, instead of the daily grind could be fun too.
My primary criteria for judging a car is miles per dollar.
A car is a box on wheels the function of which is to get me and my stuff from A to B.