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[–] fleurc@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

It kinda looks like it, right? 😅 I was a bit confused too when I first compared them, but I think it’s more of a visual effect from the skirt fabric and the different cameras. I still have clothes from back then and now they get stuck on my butt but still fit fine at the waist… so I don’t think it shrunk lol. My partner can also confirm it’s actually grown 😅

[–] RetroHax@feddit.org 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Holyestly PEAK XD
As someone who doesnt for example want Really Really BIG Boobs i honestly pray to the Booba Gods that mine arent like C or D Cups but A or max B Cups >.<

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I’ll pray for you too 🙏

[–] RetroHax@feddit.org 3 points 2 days ago

Thanks :D
Its just due to my Chubbyness i assume theyll probably get Bigger than they should sadly >.>

[–] guynamedzero@piefed.zeromedia.vip 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

This is possibly the only time where it’s respectful to look at and compliment a girls boobs

Anyway, having seen them, nice boobs! It’s amazing what just 9 months can do! Hopefully in another 9 months you can feel even more confident in yourself!

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago

Thank you! At this point running is already a struggle 😅 so I wouldn’t mind if they stayed this size… but I also wouldn’t complain if they got a bit bigger

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Looks great!!! Def more than mine after a year and a half of estradiol and about 5 months of progesterone.

My main issue though is my rib cage is big for my body. Right now I'm stuck at 36AA which either doesn't exist or isn't made properly for smaller cups. I have one CK bra that's a 34A that I can squeeze into the band, but even buying the same bra they didn't fit. So guess I got a defective one, but in a good way. Though the cup is still a little big it does push them together a bit at least. I dont want big and want to avoid implants, just want enough to make clothes fit right. I have no curves besides a bit of belly, which is the one bad kind, 🤣.

I tried Pepper and The Little Bra Company, but they didn't do too well either. Either they still gap or they flatten what little there is.

Probably will give it another year before considering B cup implants unless I can at least fit a 36A...or my ribcage shrinks...lol...id be quite happy with a nice full 32B 😁.

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I get what you mean about proportions, it can be so frustrating 😅 I’m pretty tall (about 6’1”), and when I checked my measurements on A Bra That Fits it suggested around a 40D. The 40 band bummed me out a bit lol. I did gain some weight after starting HRT and I’m working on losing some now, so maybe it’ll go down a little… though I doubt by a ton, I’d love to get to a 36 someday 😭

I haven’t really gotten into bras yet either, I mostly wear sports bras occasionally and haven’t had too many issues. Although I did have something similar happen, I bought the same sports bra in two colors and one fits tighter than the other 🙃

Bodies (and sizing) are so weird, I hope you find something that fits you comfortably soon 🫶

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah I didn't gain weight, but maybe that would hell with breast growth, lol. Mine is all bone so probably only will get bigger bands unfortunately. I did bralettes and sports bras for a while, but I really like dresses and low cut and keyhole styles, and many require at least some amount of bulge to fit right. Bras with pads at the outside help push mine together a bit to make them look less flat and reduce the bulge in the armpit area since I'm getting a little older and skin isn't as tight as it used to be 😁, but just hard to avoid the gapping since the cups are almost always too big and the straps are attached to the cups too far to the outside since the designs don't compensate for the smaller cups.

Anyway, still a work in progress so hopefully it will fix itself or more bands will decide to cater to smaller breasts on wider chests, or I'll find a style that works. Just happy yo have them at all. LOL

[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)