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[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 6 points 21 hours ago

I get what you mean about proportions, it can be so frustrating 😅 I’m pretty tall (about 6’1”), and when I checked my measurements on A Bra That Fits it suggested around a 40D. The 40 band bummed me out a bit lol. I did gain some weight after starting HRT and I’m working on losing some now, so maybe it’ll go down a little… though I doubt by a ton, I’d love to get to a 36 someday 😭

I haven’t really gotten into bras yet either, I mostly wear sports bras occasionally and haven’t had too many issues. Although I did have something similar happen, I bought the same sports bra in two colors and one fits tighter than the other 🙃

Bodies (and sizing) are so weird, I hope you find something that fits you comfortably soon 🫶