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Definition: "gay music video night" is a friendgroup activity wherein you and your friends rotate in choosing music videos to show one another. This often emerges organically as opposed to being planned, and as a subset of a larger hangout, e.g. as a pregame activity or winding down. The reason that it's called "gay music video night" is that this activity/ritual is often partaken by queer male friendgroups, and for the veneration of their favourite female pop idols (though no music video is excluded here; please share whatever you wish!)

Ok now that everyone has been briefed: Chrissy Chlapecka truly continues to gag me. Like her cunt level is just so powerful.

She started off with Brat, which was admittedly a studio space and a dream, and still ate down

And now she's putting out incredible videos like Andromeda (which had an insane production turnaround time???)

We need to be including her in the conversation. Her strap stays down my throat and her pleaser on my neck, and I thank her. Chrissanie Chlapenotta You Will Always Be Famous 😍😍😍

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[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Not gay, but this song was always SUPER fun to sing in Rockband. Not sure if it's too on-the-nose or what, but I stand by it as an absolute banger, regardless of who you're attracted to.

Electric Six - Gay Bar - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XNFokmDKrE

Maybe open with that to lighten the mood? Also, it's only about two minutes long (plus an intro). Plus, taking the piss outta Lincoln.

[–] sangeteria@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

This was a really good pick! Very fun and it had a strong pov. Plus, it's about gay shit so very on theme πŸ™‚β€β†•οΈπŸ™‚β€β†•οΈ

[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

This was going to be my suggestion.

Chrissy Chlapecka truly continues to gag me. Like her cunt level is just so powerful.

She started off with Brat, which was admittedly a studio space and a dream, and still ate down

This amount of slang that I'm unfamiliar with if not downright confused by in just a few sentences makes me feel very old, white, and cishet πŸ˜¬πŸ˜„

(I like it, though, in case that wasn't clear)

[–] frankenswine@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago
[–] IAmYouButYouDontKnowYet@reddthat.com 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The boy with a thorn in his side by the smiths.

[–] sangeteria@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

The song itself was good but I found the music video a bit lacking tbh I'm sorry 😭😭😭 I need production and drama and this looked like a random small venue concert performance πŸ’€ I do love the lead singer effeminately swaying the whole time, so it will get a passing grade πŸ™‚β€β†•οΈπŸ™‚β€β†•οΈ

[–] ace_garp@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

This came to mind.

Mo-Do - Eins Zwei Polizei

It's mid 90s.

[–] asdasd201@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Miracle Man by Ozzy Osbourne

[–] sangeteria@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This was a pretty good pick! The glam rock type of aesthetic along with the cathedral (bc drama + homophobia = gay) really match up well with the expectations!

[–] asdasd201@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I also do a lot of MV and concert nights with my metalhead buddies, but afaik I'm the only LG(B)T oneβ€”I'm in stealth and probably will be until I move from my country.

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My best friend's ex-bf was Ukrainian and he showed me music videos for Kazaky. Seemed very gay and the music was cool (synthpop/EDM) and the videos, outfits and dancing seemed really good to me. It made me think of if Lady Gaga did a collar with Rammstein.

[–] sangeteria@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I watched his Push music video

This is by far the answer that meets the brief of "gay music video night" the most. Other videos were fun and all mvs are acceptable, but this is the type of video that would be extremely appreciated in that setting. Cunt dancing, genderfuck, punk, an edm type beat, a queer message, it's like perfect. Concocted in a lab to slay

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Nice! Glad I was able to help.

I'm not gay myself, so I wasn't quite sure of some of your descriptors, but for a gay-bro music video night, I felt this would have to at least check some of the boxes.

[–] ThirdConsul@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

gay music video night

It's called a kiki.

Let's have a kiki: https://youtu.be/eGCD4xb-Tr8

Or a kaikai https://youtu.be/rfWeBYd7rkQ

[–] NKBTN@feddit.uk 1 points 1 month ago

Vending Machine of Love by The Stupendium. Caters for all sexualities, plus full of silly puns

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

There’s this absolute banger you could give a listen.

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Mistress Violet (Violet Chachki ft Allie X), great aesthetics and great song!

https://youtu.be/PDykBK498II

[–] jahayk@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago

Do you like shoegaze? Have you heard of Man on Man? https://youtu.be/kSyPwWY23WQ

[–] mistermodal@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] sangeteria@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

This was quite fun!