Day 1 of a five day weekend and my birthday in there somewhere...love you all...stay fresh and free
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Happy birthday!! How are you planning to celebrate?
By doing as little as possible and having dinner at a nice restaurant later.
Very basic.
Question: do you sleep
- clothed
- undie-d
- nude
- PJs
Just curious after seeing a post on the other place about how 2/3 millennials sleep nude.
I am one. Even if it's the middle of winter. I get all twisted up in clothes, tangled, and I run hot so I just end up sweaty lol
Another nude. Unless I'm super unwell or there are guests in the house.
PJs now but used to be nude. Dunno, I get cold and I have soft comfy jammies.
yeah, on really cold nights I wear fleecies
Pjs. It's a well known phenomenon that as your body temp cools down, this triggers sleep, and yet I find myself waking sweaty nearly all year round. Pjs keep the sheets cleaner. Bedding I keep to the absolute minimum for the season/temperature, and in layers so adjustable. And I MUST have an open window all year round. I've frequently been too warm to sleep, but rarely if ever too cool to sleep. Maybe I'm weird.
Nude
Nude.
PJ bottoms and a comfy t shirt on top for me. I run warm in bed but naked feels too cold.
nude
Prefer nude for comfort, but wear short/ cropped PJโs for fear of needing to get up suddenly and not being dressed (due to break in/ fire/). The BS anxiety around it just makes it easier to wear PJs.
Boxers and that's it
Day 5
The nicotine spray is effective.
A couple more weeks and the spray can go as well.
Can you get weaker sprays? Or open it up and dilute it with water? I used to cut nic-patches down instead of buying weaker patches.
That's not a bad idea..
this is great ๐
Cbf doing any real cooking tonight, so I've shoved tonight's meatballs in a foil envelope in the oven with diced spuds and carrots and some garlic/chilli/onion mince and a dribble of olive oil. Smelling very nice now it's cooking. Will eat with rice tonight and maybe tomorrow in a wrap. Still got maybe half an hour to go before its ready.
I had a sandwich, a really nice piece of baguette with mustard , lettuce and good ham, washed down with some aspirins
also a little piece of cheesecake and an antihistamine
Aced it๐
I'm doing all the right things, am allowed to take more allergy meds if I want. Will keep a food diary for a month. I might be alright just by being careful what I eat and taking allergy meds when I want.
Didn't get the testing today, might in a month's time.
I had a bad day again and napped. Festy sink dishes are washing in the shitty but now functional dishwasher. Prised the stuck wheels off with a butter knife and put them in the laundry sink. Tea towels on to wash. I feel like shit and just want my cat back.
oh melbs
so many hugs ๐ซ
I have an idea. How about if you make a physical album about Melbcat (doesn't have to be a scrap book with all decorations and stuff ) just a nice album of pictures and some writing , Start at the beginning. Yes, you will probably cry . Maybe do other albums of other cats you have had.
Just tried the new ride on mower down here. Old one carked it.
We are no longer going 4km/h but 6km/h. Basically the Ferrari of the mower world. Have to slow down when turning the corner on rabbit / hare mode.
It's also red so will have to put some flame decals on.
And overhead foxtail.
Make sure you've got safety gear on. The extra 2km is a killer.
Killing Joke - Love Like Blood
My late night soundtrack for tonight. Where my goths at?
went to bed early
Holy crap it's stunning outside. Had lunch with Boyo at a cafe and we both considered blowing off work for the arvo to go and sit on a patio somewhere. Sadly I'm back at my desk.
okay, wish me luck at the allergy clinic ๐
Good luck!!!
Good luck. Hope you get some answers.
Are you getting the huge itchy back thing? Luck!!
Can't remember if I posted this before but it came up today

I want to like AnySoftKeyboard but it makes it hard. The app's menus are a mess and it has looked and felt different on every phone I've used it on. Right now on the vacuum phone the themes and suggestions only show up in some apps and I have to manually type everything out the rest of the time. Who knew creating a keyboard app with swipe was so hard?
Heading into the CBD this morning - haven't been on public transport in months, usually work from home.
Sure enough, delays of >10m just announced due to equipment issues.
And people wonder why RTO mandates are so unpopular. Shonky PT is just one of the many reasons.
I think I fixed the dishwasher. It appears to be working now. ๐ค I got the front wheels off the pram to soak and scrub them after the dog shit incident but not the back wheels. I know how to but they're stuck so I've put cooking oil to soak in to those parts and will just have to move that to the back area of the lino for when I mop. If I have to chuck the base I have a spare one from where the carrier part of that got ruined.
TW mental health
My sleep pattern is so bad and my mental health has been worse. I've been randomly having anxiety and grief crashouts so bad I puke but also desperately trying to regain some control and fix everything to try and ease my mind. Been talking with people about Melbcat and showing cute photos of her but nothing seems to help. I wish I could just cry normally, break down and howl like an animal but it doesn't feel safe to do that with the people in my block.
It has never in my life been safe to stop and fully openly grieve and usually I've had to compartmentalise to survive the next immediate crisis. https://www.tumblr.com/sometiktoksarevalid/803770369219624960
Beep Beep ๐
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Slow start at work today. I need coffee
another day, another reddit ban, this time for making a joke about why isn't someone dead yet
Let me guess: an orange politician?
Edit: just read SaneMartigan's comment and your response. Should have done so before responding. I also look at the daily news and wonder how long until.
You only get so many before they permanently ban you. I assume you were talking about the pumpkin paedophile king of America?
I came in at lunchtime and my laptop still isn't ready so I'm just chilling.
WTF, I love Windows now? (When it's on someone else's computer at least)
Up since 3. Gnawing on raw tortellini. Cats attempting to manifest the food robot. Boyo on day 2 of giant tonka truck course. Pokรฉmon is stuffed. Think I should re-dye my hair. And seal the banister. And start the new Lego. It's gonna be a day.
Feels like someone is driving a knife into my lung through my left shoulder blade, even hurts to breathe a bit. No way I punctured my lung by just sleeping on my arm or crooking my neck funny, but I'm catastrophising because wow the pain is sharp.
Why do I have to sleep like a bread knot lol
Edit: check out this sick pic of the moon I took. Love how it's like, almost perfectly set in the gap between my balcony roof and the building next door
I just think it's neat
Subscapularis and serratus anterior are the muscles in the area. Could also be rib head / vertebrae articulations.
Poi or club bells are good shoulder mobility exercises. Else time heals most things.