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I think he might be gay but I'm not sure (lemmy.eco.br)

submitted 20 hours ago by blackwitch@lemmy.eco.br to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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Either way he's for sure not into me. My boyfriend Avery and I are polyamorous, I'm also dating this girl Amy and he's dating this guy Alex.

Some people not on here have suggested that Avery might be gay and I'm a "beard" for him as he spends way more time with Alex than me. Even if it's not true, he definitely isn't into me.

He also said "IDK honestly" when I asked if we could hang out again like old times and have him spend equal time with us instead of him being on the phone with Alex and talking about him every time we talk. It's all he talks about when he's not leaving my messages on read but I know he'd think I was selfish if I told him to knock it off.

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[–] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago

Whether he's gay or bisexual is a moot point. He definitely prefers his boyfriend over you. If i were you I'd bail.

[–] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 6 points 18 hours ago

Sounds like being poly is not working out out you.

[–] blackwitch@lemmy.eco.br 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Does it mean anything that I said “Can’t wait to see you tomorrow ❤️ “ and he just read it and didn’t say anything back like usual ?

[–] Bassman27@lemmy.world 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Yes

[–] blackwitch@lemmy.eco.br -1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I thought so 😓 he would definitely respond to Alex, the old Avery would have responded

[–] Bassman27@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

I think it’s time you cut him off and go separate ways

[–] blackwitch@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

He also doesn’t wanna keep up our selfie streak of sending photos to each other nor does he save my photos anymore (we talk on Snapchat) and I feel like once, if, he breaks up with his boyfriend he’s gonna crawl back to me

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Fun unrelated fact.

When a computer part starts to malfunction you replace it. Otherwise it could damage the whole machine.

[–] blackwitch@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 20 hours ago

Fair enough. I will replace him ngl

[–] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Whole what machine?

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

It's sort of a piston dildo thing