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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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Inheriting their worldview from consensus or comfort, never having to earn it through actual thought.

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 4 points 5 hours ago

It's the MAGA slogan: Don't bother me with facts, my mind is made up.

[–] Limerance@piefed.social 3 points 7 hours ago

Totally. Especially today people hole up in their tiny bubbles and echo chambers. Any challenges to their worldview and beliefs are rejected as woke, cultural Marxist, far left, fascist, racist, bigotry, etc. Being able to endure and process the emotions that come up, when you’re challenged is a skill people across the political spectrum have less and less. Emotions are endlessly validated regardless of facts, to the detriment of society and everyone’s wellbeing at large. The celebration of victimhood is toxic for everyone and keep them disempowered. It’s not just the left. The right has its whole „white genocide“ myth, and endless conspiracy theories about powerful evil elites.

It’s extremely prevalent here on Lemmy/Piefed as well. Actual discussion between opposing viewpoints is rare, and usually cut short by mods.

People should just talk to and more importantly listen to each other.

[–] SpiffyPotato@feddit.uk 30 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Whilst this statement has some merit, its problem is that you’re setting up a precursor to a straw-man argument. This is because who defines “challenging ideas”. This allows anyone to come up with a supposed challenging idea, then call anyone who doesn’t engage in it “an intellectual nepobaby”.

For example, should I engage in the “challenging idea” that the world is run by lizard people?

What about the “challenging idea” that throwing bricks in peoples faces will fix their teeth?

[–] faythofdragons@slrpnk.net 1 points 16 minutes ago

For example, should I engage in the “challenging idea” that the world is run by lizard people?

As a counterpoint, you likely have. You're aware of the position, aware of the proposed evidence, and determined the evidence falls short of proof, which means you've engaged with their thinking before rejecting it.

[–] SenK@lemmy.ca 7 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

I get what you’re saying, but you’re kind of setting up a strawman yourself here here. Not every idea deserves endless debate, sure, it’s about the habit of dismissing things as "stupid" without even considering them. Sure, lizard people and bricks fixing teeth are absurd. But those examples are extreme on purpose, and they don’t really address the core of people rejecting ideas out of hand just because they’re unfamiliar or uncomfortable. If an idea is actually bad, it will fall apart under scrutiny. But if the default response is just "that’s dumb," we’re not thinking critically, we’re just avoiding the work, and worse, we are participating in a culture where it's okay to do so. Which is exactly what leads to people getting (and abusing) terrible ideas.

Remedy to stupidity isn't LESS critical thinking.

[–] SpiffyPotato@feddit.uk 8 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

But those examples are extreme on purpose

Yes they were! And you’re right, we need to allow ourselves to be challenged, to consider ideas outside of our comfort zone, but we also need to able to reject ideas that are not being posited in good faith.

This is the joy of debate, to question statements and receive nuanced answers in reply.

[–] Yliaster@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

How do you determine what's not in good faith?

I would imagine this would tie to values, but do those become the unquestionable object, then?

[–] clean_anion@programming.dev 1 points 3 hours ago

I assume good faith unless clear evidence indicates otherwise. I try to adopt a more general version of WP:AGF in life.

[–] SpiffyPotato@feddit.uk 5 points 8 hours ago

That’s a great question and I’m not sure I have a definitive answer. For lack of better description, it would be the vibe I got from them:

  • Do I feel like they’re being deliberately argumentative.
  • Do I feel like they’re trying to twist my words in an unkind way.
  • Are they looking for ways to find offence in what I’ve said.
[–] lastlybutfirstly@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

How do you determine what’s not in good faith?

I personally always assume good faith. I can't read people's minds. On the Internet, I can't even see facial expressions or hear how they're saying it. It's like that Key and Peele text message sketch.

[–] SenK@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 hours ago

Oh my gosh, thank you for responding this way 😭

I feel like on Lemmy it's really difficult to ever post anything but total agreement without it immediately becoming an argument. Glad we found common ground!

[–] mycodesucks@lemmy.world 16 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (3 children)

This is the same "good faith" argument that cultists, religious recruiters, libertarians, and racists use.

You don't have to engage with morally abhorrent arguments out of loyalty to some platonic ideal of intellectualism. You're allowed to tell people to fuck off.

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[–] hakase@lemmy.zip 2 points 7 hours ago

Lol, the irony of this being so highly upvoted on Lemmy, of all places.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Hard disagree. Cimate denial, vaccine denial, list goes on of weekly world news level of bs. At one point I was young enough with enough time on my hands to argue these things but nope. Not at this point. If have to be talking about something credible now for me to engage.

[–] SenK@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

You personally don't have to engage at all. In fact with the way algorithms work, very specifically do NOT engage if you're not ready to go all in. But be aware that there are plenty of people out there ready to fill the information void with whatever nonsense that benefits them.

Nobody has to be a crusader against misinformation, but I'd strongly caution against thinking that just ignoring the problem will make it go away.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 6 hours ago

I would also caution against thinking that you can just screem yourself horse about stuff and it will make it go away. I have to deal with my life and I will engage in stuff when I have the will and time. My wife was bringing me all sorts of crap from youtube and I had to continually tell her to stop doing it. Yes I can debunk it but it can take anywhere from 10 minutes to a few hours to debunk it and a well done and quality debunk takes the hours while the 10 min is just yeah you can basically see this is nonsense. But you could see its nonsense from the get go sometimes with just a bit of basic logic. Unfortunately she has not had an elementary logic class and when people do not have experience in it or appropriate education backgrounds to fully utilize it (math and science but sometimes it needs law or humanities) for many things and of course if you don't do things like suduko or clues by sam (which is amazing) you won't be able to do it as quickly. Those bubbles do not collapse because some folks stop by and write a paragraph debunking their claim especially when evidence is internet links. Real life I will though as those people can't just log off or let others fill them with bunk while we are conversing. They will have to defend their position on the merits they are aware of in real time without doing web searches.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Yeah, but, what if your thought produces something that the consensus disagrees with? Then you're an evil person.

[–] roundup5381@sh.itjust.works 13 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence.

[–] Limerance@piefed.social 1 points 8 hours ago

If someone brings evidence, ban them for reasons of wrongspeak.

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

@mindbleach@sh.itjust.works remind you of anyone?

[–] SenK@lemmy.ca 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

...no? Help me out?

Edit: Sorry, I misunderstood you lol

[–] NoTagBacks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 14 hours ago

I've found that I generally don't look down on anyone pretty much ever. I don't get it when someone lacks intellectual curiosity, but I never look down on them for it since it's just not everyone's cup of tea. However, when someone has disdain or actively rejects deeper inquiry, hoo boy, I can't help but suddenly feel a pretty aggressive anger as if they not only choose to be stupid, but are trying to socially pressure everyone else to choose to be stupid. That's just not acceptable.

[–] trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 14 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

That's like 95% of humanity

[–] Pinetten@pawb.social 14 points 15 hours ago (6 children)

Yep. It's especially cringe when people ignore centuries of philosophical discussion. Often smugly.

Great example is when people refer to Richard Dawkins' books as proof that there is no god. Nothing like a Reddit atheist to make me embarrassed to not believe in god.

[–] Limerance@piefed.social 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

There are also many definitions of god, and Dawkins engages with all of them. Dawkins is much more strongly opposed do theism, than deism for example. He engages with philosophical ideas about god.

Dawkins argues that we don’t need god to explain the universe, life, or anything else. He further goes on to argue that religious belief in god trains people to be irrational fanatics, which damages society, progress, science. In the end Dawkins says, there’s no proof for the existence of god, and that we would all be better off without religion. However IIRC Dawkins recognizes that religious belief can have positive psychological effects.

The new atheists have become their own subculture with its own values. The online new atheist scene also attracts people who love to argue, provoke, and pick fights. Contrarians and skeptics are not the same, but can overlap.

There‘s also a pipeline that goes like this: new atheism > anti religion > anti islam > white nationalism

The issue here is that the left has abandoned its opposition to religion, especially regarding Islam, in the name of anti-racism and intersectional identity politics. So these people are rejected by the left and driven to the right.

[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I don't think "the left" needs to abandon religion. I have the left in quotes because most of the time we're actually talking about progressives. And you can't be progressive while dictating the beliefs of others. Leftism, however, benefits greatly from being united in belief. Unity is what it's all about. But they don't, because leftists are usually more progressives than anything else. Even when it happens, the hive mind mentality is what makes extreme leftism easy to fall apart and easy to slip into dictatorships at high population levels. And yet, we are approaching a post scarcity, post career having society, which demands socialism to some extent. But with a reliance on globalism. And bad foreign policy in place.

I don't have an ultimate point in this I guess. I don't know the solution, but it's not stamping out religion and it's not the reactionary fascism that America is a part of now.

[–] db2@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

Great example is when people refer to Richard Dawkins' books as proof that there is no god

As was said earlier by someone else, that which is asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 8 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I've never witnessed an atheist making such an argument. Usually it's the theists getting hung up on him because they are used to appealing to authority figures and project.

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