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First of all I would recommend you use Piefed instead. Easier to setup and maintain.

But I am not sure exactly what you want that Lemmy/Piefed instance for? As an internal forum of sorts? That can work, but is not really what it was developed for and there are better (non-federated) options.

If you want it to be an actually federated instance then the Rasberry will not cut it. The desktop might, if it has some good SSD storage for the database.

For in game voice-chat the simplest option is a Mumble server. Very low resource use and runs great on a Rasberry like yours. Otherwise you could also try setting up a Movim instance. It has text chat and voice/video calls that should reasonably work as a Discord substitute for small groups. It is also quite low resource and should run fine on that Rasberry.

Couldn't you just create the communities on an existing server? Obviously it would be good to not be on the biggest one to help spread out the community, as that's the point of federation. If it's on a server with existing users, you're more likely to get members join as it will show in their local feed.

Disclaimer: I might be talking out of my ass here but this is how I think it works, to the best of my knowledge.

The safest way would be to make an instance that only hosts the communities; it has no users and therefore federates no subscriptions of other communities who’s content you may need to police for stuff like CSAM that isn’t caught right away. You’d only need to monitor and moderate your own communities created on the instance.

I’m not sure but you might need one account to be an admin/ moderator for the communities you create? Just don’t subscribe to any off-instance communities with it and it shouldn’t federate those posts.

Folks on other communities will interact with it via someone from their instance subscribing to it; so discoverability might present an issue.

I tried one time to make my own personal instance https://potato-guy.space/, that ended because I forgot my ssh keys when i distrohopped, but I could make some suggestions.

• Get anti-bot protection, like cloudflare (or something more privacy friendly) AND something like anubis or a nginx plugin.
• Don't make it on your network if you don't know what you're doing, put it on a rented VM on the "cloud", the chance of someone breaking into your network because you misconfigured something, if you don't know about network security, is above zero and horizontal hopping in a network is feasible.
• A raspberry pi is enough, just use some optimzed settings and use the picture server settings to use postgresql too, just create a new database on postgresql and hook that on, it will be more cpu and ram friendly.
• If you really want it on your network, double check and triple check every router configuration, put it on a virtual network, inside a VM, outside your own network so horizontal attacks don't happen.
• Edit: Also, use btrfs with compression enabled for the postgresql database, it will make the database faster as the read and write ops will be 2x (with lzo, almost no cpu usage) to 3x (with zstd, but with more cpu usage) faster.

This is the docker-compose config for lemmy: https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/tree/main/docker

This is the tutorial for it: https://join-lemmy.org/docs/administration/install_docker.html

Some drama happened in the past on those docker configs, check all and put your domain where needed.

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I want to set up a Lemmy server too (currently still deciding between Lemmy and PieFed) to host some basic content that we create at a university group with the public. It's more like a blog than anything else, at least as envisioned. I'd also like to add some cool features to it like auto-posting (i.e. we have a bot that automatically uploads certain posts).

Are you maybe looking for something like Revolt or Spacebar?