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Do they like me? (discuss.tchncs.de)

submitted 1 week ago by SchwarzeHexe@discuss.tchncs.de to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Hi, I feel like I'm asking the dumbest question on Earth but it's Jessica here.

When I asked Alex, my crush, if they liked anyone, they answered because they were so inexperienced with dating (as in, never had a partner ever before), they never really thought about it.

However, they do wanna do things with me like meet up, practice kissing, have sex, all of that.

I feel like they would definitely like me because of that but we're going to video call, hopefully today, and see if we can date.

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[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've been in denial like this, too, but I'd definitely say yes if they're DTF and want to kiss.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 8 points 1 week ago

Its worth caution. Sometimes people see someone as a means to an end.

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 week ago

hard to say, some people are less interested in romance than sex and affection. if that were the case then you have to ask yourself if your okay with that kind of relationship or do you want more? its perfectly normal to have your own wants and finding a partner with compatible desires is a a good goal