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Hi, I feel like I'm asking the dumbest question on Earth but it's Jessica here.

When I asked Alex, my crush, if they liked anyone, they answered because they were so inexperienced with dating (as in, never had a partner ever before), they never really thought about it.

However, they do wanna do things with me like meet up, practice kissing, have sex, all of that.

I feel like they would definitely like me because of that but we're going to video call, hopefully today, and see if we can date.

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[โ€“] voytek709@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've been in denial like this, too, but I'd definitely say yes if they're DTF and want to kiss.

[โ€“] apotheotic@beehaw.org 8 points 1 week ago

Its worth caution. Sometimes people see someone as a means to an end.