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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

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[–] nutbutter@discuss.tchncs.de 60 points 1 week ago (5 children)
[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 42 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because horny drives away the bad thoughts :3

Why you have that insight? are my therapist or something?

[–] anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

because I'm a hypersexual but also asexual, I love ecchi and I hate sex

[–] phar@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Have you had sex before? Just wondering, trying to imagine what liking sexual things but hating sex is like.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

kinda hard to describe, but as someone who has also felt that way, it's maybe a bit like being hungry and enjoying food but also feeling frustrated by hunger and eating, and wishing I never had to eat ...

to be fair, I think this can also be a sign of dysphoria - my hypersexuality might have been connected to the androgen dominance I experienced, and my libido feels more natural with estrogen dominance now. I used to think I was asexual (or wished I were asexual), now I just think I was dysphoric about my libido.

very possibly might agree with you in regards to my own experience

[–] anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I got the opportunity for sex, but we ended up cuddling and sleeping together instead because I was disgusted by the idea. But also I'm totally a gooner and read hentai everyday.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't want to judge too much, but it sounds like you need therapy. You aren't disgusted by sex, you're disgusted by the thought of *you" having sex, which is odd. It's like saying you don't like a food without ever trying it. You need to be willing to give it a try at least once, with an open mind, to actually know if you don't like it.

[–] Dreaming_Novaling@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gonna be real dawg, this is like telling a gay guy who's never fucked a woman "But are you sure??? If you keep your mind open you might like pussy bro."

With the food analogy, you could hear a description of a food, and then make a decision on if you'd actually want to eat it or not. If I know I don't like spicy-sweet and tropical foods in general and then someone says, "hey, wanna try this stir-fry with a coconut mango sauce?" I think I can make a reasonable assumption that I'd hate that shit.

It's up to a individual to decide if they want to have sex or not, and even though therapy might be needed to work through some thoughts, at the end of the day if you're uncomfortable you just shouldn't do it.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sure, except they like the idea of sex. If they were disgusted by sex, sure you're right. They aren't though. It's only they are disgusted about themselves being involved. That sounds like a mental block. It isn't sex that's the issue. It's something involving themselves.

[–] Dreaming_Novaling@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Okay, I could've workshoped it more sure. But I feel like you can still get a similar idea from it. The dish is something that on paper sounds delicious, but when you actually try it it's just okay or not appealing. I like fruit, I like ice, but I don't really dig smoothies. It sounds appealing, but the end result is meh.

Sex sounds like this enjoyable thing, and for many it is, but the reality is you have to take the time to prep your partner, deal with fluids, deal with any sort of gross (but natural) shit that might happen. I guess I could treat it like a sort of porn vs reality situation; porn/ideas gives you the baked cake/finished meal while the reality is you have to bake the cake/make the meal yourself. I love steak, but I don't want to go through the motions to make said steak.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 days ago

The dish is something that on paper sounds delicious, but when you actually try it it's just okay or not appealing. I like fruit, I like ice, but I don't really dig smoothies. It sounds appealing, but the end result is meh.

This version I totally agree with, but I think it makes my point. They like all the ingredients, but they have some mental block that won't let them try it combined. They don't know that they don't like smoothies. They like fruit and ice, and they like watching other people enjoy smoothies, but when they get close to trying it they get disgusted before actually getting there.

I'm not saying someone has to like sex. I'm just saying this specific person sounds like they don't dislike sex. They clearly enjoy it in fact. They just have an issue with themselves having sex. I don't care if they end up not liking it, but I think people should seek help for mental blocks that are preventing them from doing things that they may otherwise enjoy. If they get over that block and end up not liking it then that's fine, but it'd at least be them having an opinion on the actual thing, rather than feeling disgust when they get close to doing it.

look at that cutie, we all want to be horny like that.

also, god gave us the ability to wank

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

As Ace-Spec folks we are constantly asking ourselves this.

[–] TwilightNobody@piefed.blahaj.zone 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

no idea what the meme is about, got to horny to read the captions

[–] mika_mika@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'd politely disagree, am cis and have the same effects

unless this is foreshadowing something.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago (5 children)

why do we keep posting at basically the same time? do we just have similar habits?

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

why complain, just kiss already

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What stopping you? if you are serious about kissing mentally ill gay people, you would pay a data hoarder to get the real identity and address of everyone here and surprise visit them to give kisses.

not that hard Jessica from Chicago

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have a rough enough idea of her location to know it isn't close to me.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

lol, 400 miles would be close in my country

[–] TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago

They're in your walls

[–] kewwwi@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

coinkydink, maybe we're both european morning posters

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

but I'm west coast US 😭

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

can we assume you're sleep schedule is nuked?

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[–] kewwwi@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

no idea then 😮‍💨 it's not on purpose anyways

[–] webpack@ani.social 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

great minds think alike

or maybe it's gay minds think alike

gay minds kink alike

[–] asqapro@reddthat.com 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

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