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I came across this old thread on reddit-logo. The question brings out the core Conservative belief that some people are lazy or "worthless" and "why should I pay for lazy people" or "why should I have to work for someone else to live off my labor?"

Many, many people on this thread say outright that people who they deem "lazy" don't deserve food or shelter or anything a human needs to live.

Is there a good counter to this talking point? It's pretty disgusting TBH being confronted with this. I know it's what they really believe but it still stings to read it out over and over again.

I don't understand how some people can think humans don't have an inherent right to exist. Not very "pro-life" of these people.

"Lazy" is an opinion and our society is built to treat people who aren't helping a Capitalist make profit or become a Capitalist themselves like they're burdens on society.

Life isn't fair, it never has and it never will be. Maybe some of your money goes to help a person who doesn't "work as hard as you"? There's also people who are born millionaires, people who have investments paying them for no work, people who win lotteries and jackpots or marry into wealth and never have to lift a finger again.

Forcing people to work in order to live doesn't sound fair to me. It sounds like slavery with extra steps. What kind of freedom do we truly have if we can't choose to withold our labor or check out of the system altogether?


I'm struggling a little mentally with feeling guilt around my failing job search. Technically I'm working on building three income streams, maybe four, but it feels like "failure" because I'm not making enough just yet to cover all bills. It's not for a lack of trying but there's ti.es where I have no energy to do much and it makes me feel terrible. This part of Conservatism always drove me up a wall. Hopefully some of you have good ways to fight against it.

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[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 60 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

“You have no excuse to not be a productive member of society”.

I’d love to, but that’s not my decision to make. Take it up with porky, he’s the one who determines who gets to work and who doesn’t.

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 46 points 1 week ago (1 children)

porky's slacking off at the job creator factory, we should fire him

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 41 points 1 week ago

You jest, but this is unironically how I went from lib to leftist back when I was in high school

goku-doorstep: “Hello random retail store, I would like to work!”

porky-happy: “No.”

Turns out the adult world was just like this

[–] Nay@feddit.nl 48 points 1 week ago

Ahhhh, yes. The healthy, able bodied person who chooses poverty.

[–] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 43 points 1 week ago

It's true that everyone should be helping out the social whole to the best of their ability but to measure that solely in their ability to do a job making capitalists money then your measurement stick is fucked to begin with.

In a vacuum sure people should share the burden. They, we, have a responsibility to do that. Not fulfilling that responsibility could be called lazy. The idea that a job shows social worth is rooted in the assumption that the job benefits society. That any job does, really.

At the same time if my job is making mustard gas at the death factory then how am I helping society? If my job is selling candy to pre-diabetic kids does me not being lazy cancel out the social deterioration my job causes?

Proponents of capitalism are not qualified to discuss what laziness is because they can't tell the difference between benign and malign activities so long as they make money.

Further, from a Marxist sense, telling someone they are lazy because they don't volunteer themselves into a relationship where the bulk of their labor value is siphoned off so the money can sit in the Cayman Islands or whatever is laughable.

[–] OldSoulHippie@hexbear.net 41 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Ask if they would trade lives with the person they're punching down on

They will say no because they think that their labor entitles them to live better than other people and they have afforded themselves their specific treats. It's expensive being poor and nobody is truly living on disability, and deep down they have to know that

[–] Flyberius@hexbear.net 35 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I met this awful German guy in China and one time he pointed at a guy begging outside a park in Kunming and made some comment about how easy he has it, and I said the exact same thing. If it's such a good life why don't you adopt it?

He was living off inheritance from his parents dying.

He truly was awful. I guess I just had a lot of fun telling him that to his face. He was clearly very lonely and yet would still want to hang out with me even though I spent the whole time lecturing and berating him.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 40 points 1 week ago (3 children)

There are plenty of "hardworking" people who have a negative impact on society, hell, a negative impact on Earth in general. Measuring someone's worth based on how much they wealth they produce for capital is ignorant of the incredibly complex and interconnected nature of existence. It is, in my opinion, impossible to accurately quantify the value of someone's life because there are simply too many variables and subjectivites involved.

[–] Horse@lemmygrad.ml 27 points 1 week ago (2 children)

There are plenty of “hardworking” people who have a negative impact on society

hr, marketers, repo people, insurance agents, stockbrokers, mic factory workers, the list goes on

[–] MayoPete@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Anyone helping pull oil out of the ground.

[–] BeamBrain@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Some level of oil extraction is still going to be unfortunately necessary until we get the infrastructure in place to fully convert to renewables and biodiesel.

[–] Blakey@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

took me too long to realise mic wasn't short for microphone

but at the same time those people are enabling podcasters so maybe they SHOULD get the wall, much to think about

[–] FromPieces@lemmygrad.ml 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

(this is drunken blathering, nothing of consequence is said past this point)

This is, actually, something that's become a pretty core belief for me. Since waking up from the conservative idiocy I was raised within I mean.

The idea being that no grand atrocities were directed by lazy people. Related is my argument for the value of uncertainty, a person who isn't quite sure that they already understand everything important.

(and I'm too drunk to tell if this comment is at all relevant to the context I'm posting it in...)

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

Good comment, no objections here

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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 39 points 1 week ago

The lazy people living off of our labor are executives, chief officers, board members, stock traders, business owners, landlords, etc.

[–] Midnight_Pearl@hexbear.net 33 points 1 week ago

me when the value produced by my labor goes to non-working poors: frothingfash

me when the value produced by my labor goes to my lazy, parasitic boss: innocence

[–] tacosanonymous@mander.xyz 32 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A functioning society takes care of everyone wherever they’re at. Don’t let people who’ve succumbed to propaganda pressure you into feeling guilty.

[–] KurtVonnegut@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

Look at the material conditions. Humanity produces more food than it needs. Because of technological process and efficiency, we have enough food to feed every hungry person, the only problems are transportation and access (aka capitalism and imperialism). It is literally more difficult for us to NOT give food to the hungry people who need it than it is to just let them have it. The leftovers restaurants/stores throw away could feed all the needy.

As for housing, we have the space, technology, and materials to build safe and comfortable housing for everyone on earth. But instead, cities are seeing a boom in "luxury housing" and simultaneously in slums where the poor and working class are forced to live with roommates or their families. This is an economic problem, and ARTIFICIAL shortage of housing, not an actual shortage of material needs. To go to the most extreme case, why can't the government just build a bunch of new apartments all over, give control over them to social services, and comfortably house all the homeless? Or even run them with the assistance of charity groups or even religious charity groups in certain countries/regions where that's the norm? Capitalism and imperialism are the only thing getting in the way of that. Ideology is the obstacle, not material reality.

I'm sure if every person had the financial means to support their "lazy" or even physically disabled family members, they would. They would build ramps/elevators in their houses, get them physical therapy, and counseling for their mental health needs. But in America everyone is forced to work, and housing, food, and healthcare are only given to those who sacrifice their lives to work, or who collaborate in the power structure that helps the working class control the workers. When Elon Musk plays video games, he is demonstrating his genius. When the peasants play video games, they are lazy. When Donald Trump golfs, he's closing high-level business deals. When the peasants kick a soccer ball around, they are wasting time. When George W. Bush paints, he is bravely facing his trauma. When the peasants paint, they are choosing a useless career path.

Laziness is not a real thing in America, it is simply a word used to blame the working class for their own economic situation. "Grind more. Get another job. Invest. Get up early. Stay late. Be your own boss." It's the same mentality that leads to laws preventing people from buying chips or cookies with food stamps - the poor do not deserve to be happy, and in fact they deserve to be miserable, in order to incentivize them to stop being poor.

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 31 points 1 week ago (2 children)

laziness isnt even real. capitalism has tricked humans into thinking wanting to chill like every other animal is always doing is bad. why? because it doesnt make some rich dude more money

[–] Comrade_Mushroom@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

Oh, you're not willing to constantly be doing shit you don't want to do for your entire singular lifespan? You sicken me, die immediately.

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[–] BelieveRevolt@hexbear.net 29 points 1 week ago

You know who works really hard? Cleaners, food delivery drivers and other people who are the most exploited by this system.

Are they rich?

[–] ephemeral@hexbear.net 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I agree that everyone who's able should contribute to society, and that's why I propose sending all CEOs, investment bankers and venture capitalists into forced labor camps

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 25 points 1 week ago

A society should be judged on how it treats its most vulnerable. They will always take it a step further with their criteria of who is lazy. Today it may be the unemployed. Tomorrow it will end up being pensioners. Children? None of em deserve to die and we've seen such people vote into being laws that harm all of these groups.

[–] CrawlMarks@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

"Yes and"

Unproductive members of society should be removed. CEOs add nothing if value. Sales people. Bankers. Politicans. Landlords. Middle Men. Car dealerships.

Instagram influences at least add beauty. CEOs just leach off the hard work of others. If they didn't show up to work we'd still do our jobs. If the janitorial doesn't show up how long can you work with dirty bathrooms?

From there you can doubble down. A man is entitled to the sweat of his brow no? So an investor that doesn't actually work is owed none of the profits.

[–] glimmer_twin@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago

Capitalists are the “laziest” people in human history, and if those people don’t like being taxed wait until they hear about surplus value

[–] Wertheimer@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago

I have an "invisible disability," at least on my better days, so I can see this attitude in some people's faces when they ask me what I do for a living.

And yet. About 30% of all income in the U.S. is unearned. Benefits payments are a small portion of that, and the vast, vast majority of benefits payments like SSI ultimately end up in the hands of landlords. But somehow my disability check makes chuds angrier than the fact that most of that check goes to rent.

The owners of this wealth, or capital, capture around 30 percent of the income produced by the country every year. This income flows to them, not because they work for it, but merely because they own income-generating assets like real estate, equity, and debt. In 2015, total US capital income was around $4.8 trillion.

If this unearned portion of the national income was distributed equally to every individual in society, then each person would receive around $15,000 of income per year in addition to whatever else they receive from working. For a family of four, this dividend alone would bring their household income to $60,000 per year.

$15,000, incidentally, is more than the maximum annual SSI payment. So even if so-called "laziness" were classified as a disability it would actually be the "lazy" who are getting a raw deal.

[–] Bobson_Dugnutt@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

Able to work, able to get hired, and able to make ends meet are different things. Lots of people want to work, but can't find a job, let alone one that will fully support them.

[–] Enjoyer_of_Games@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

From each according to their means, to each according to their needs.

You seem like you're in need of a baseball bat.

[–] InappropriateEmote@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] InappropriateEmote@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The "lazy" people you think are living off of your work get a tiny pittance of the taxes you pay, nearly the entirety of which only go to reproducing the economic system that rewards those who do not work but claim to, simply by virtue of their "ownership" of the things everyone needs to live a bare minimum survival. It is these non-working "owners" who live in obscene opulence and have unrestrained power over us all, dictating to us that we must toil while they only reap. The value you actually produce is being stolen from you by those same "owners," and not even the table scraps are afforded those at the bottom struggling to survive in a system that is built around their poverty which serves a threat to all workers if they do not fall in line. The leeches are at the top, not the bottom. You absolutely should be enraged by those leeching off your work, but you've misidentified who the leeches are.

[–] vovchik_ilich@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

Tell them that you fully agree, and that's why you want to abolish capitalism and follow a model like that of the Soviet Union, where unemployment was abolished and every able-bodied person worked, and the average time spent looking for a job after losing one was 2 weeks. Tell them that there was no unemployed in pre-agrarian societies or in feudalism, that unemployment is just a byproduct of capitalism and that people inherently want to contribute to society, and that's why we want a collaborative society with guaranteed employment for everyone.

[–] GnastyGnuts@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

The world is in a climate crisis because of a crisis of overproduction. In that context in particular, more "laziness" (the desire to chill and enjoy life instead of toil for wealthier people) would benefit the planet.

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

For the libs a utilitarian counter to this would be "because not providing support will give you crime instead".

And then you put them in prison and you're now paying significantly more for them than if you'd had benefits and systems in place to get them back into work more gently.

The current system got to this point by slow evolution from significantly less support because this is more cost efficient than what existed before.

[–] Comrade_Mushroom@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

Have you suffered enough to justify your existence today?

[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I feel that way about the rich. If I have to pay 33% on every fucking dollar I earn then so should they.

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[–] cricbuzz@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

honestly, if you want to take the financial angle, it's just cheaper to give struggling people money

[–] Salem@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I think the USSR used to just give you a job, shelter, medical care and support but they did expect you to work barring disabilities that prevented you from doing so.

These posts and comments as you've presented them are just general misanthropy hidden behind assigning social worth to labor to wages, a rant on their learned helplessness to the sentiment of : why don't I receive help? Why is my life so hard?. It is the cry of the alienated capitalist subject.

[–] lil_tank@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

Yes it's quiet simple really. Does society desperately need me to work? If yes, ok then give me the job, I'm ready. No? I have to look for it and make myself appealing to the boss? So that means jobs are a privilege. So if I let others who need it more have it and stay on welfare then I'm making a sacrifice for others by not taking a job from someone who'd like it more.

Somehow that doesn't add up for a lot of people

[–] The_Grinch@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It clearly isn't effective to keep a person in a deep hole if you want them to be "productive". Bad times don't make "strong men", adequate nutrition, enrichment, stability, support, and education makes "strong men" (and women, NBs, etc). and those people make a strong society.

[–] BeamBrain@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

How long should someone with no physical or mental disabilities be allowed to remain on benefits?

What is the industrial reserve army

[–] plinky@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

if you own more than 1000 in 30 years treasuries, you get a wall as a lazy bum. but for real, the goal of socialism is to work less, have control over what you work for and how much you work. As we don't have full automation, edge case (able bodied, physically, mentally, socially) and not looking for work person shouldn't automatically be considered a person we should fight for (i for one think those people are actually very rare, cause it's boring as shit). Somebody grown and milled the flour you eat, you have to give something back (or you can do coop living, but have fun explaining there why you don't want to do anything). Or you can live in log cabin with a gun, but that's another thing, and not something those people would call lazy.

Now, there is a lot of work society doesn't deem profitable and thus not compensating (be it elder care or young people care, home work etc), so again you can construct argument around that person not being "lazy" actually.

The danger of this argument, appearing reasonable on its face, is constructing labyrinth of means testing which hurts more people than it helps.

But when people imagine this type of person, they are doing some sort of reagan "black people in cadillac", and likely being racist as well.

so choose your thingy as counterargument (means testing hurts more than helps, finance bros are more dangerous, caring for kids is work actually, "how did that work out for y'all since 80s, crackers?" - don't work on people on the internet, cause it's upper quintiles, "natural unemployment rate" is a thing they decided to accept)

also poster nr2 probably pays more to his owners than taxes, the little crab in the bucket.

[–] FuckyWucky@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

because under capitalism getting a job is kinda difficult, painful process, so even many the 'voluntarily unemployed' may take up part time jobs if they had the chance and if it were provided for by the Government.

[–] LoveWitch@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It is genuinely heartbreaking we can’t divide the world in two and let everyone who thinks this way live on their half while we get to point and laugh from our half

[–] CrawlMarks@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

We tried they. They destroyed the good half.

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

fuck em, pigs don't get to judge people

[–] MetalMachine@feddit.nl 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I assume this is in relation to the BB bill that cut medicaid? Arguing in this line would put you in a difficult spot. Instead you should shift to talking about how these cuts are done on purpose to give a tax break to corporations. If that wasn't the case we wouldn't have needed to pass the cuts.

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[–] Blakey@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

As someone who would "happily" be lazy and sit around scraping by on welfare... People aren't like that because they're well.

[–] tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 week ago

I havent worked for monthsi Hopefully what I have been doing instead will turn out useful.

[–] phantomwise@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago

That argument always gives me vibes of "but I've had to go through corporeal punishment when I was a kid, it's not fair that children now should have it easier".

"Things were bad for me and I still made it, I don't want it to be easier for other people or it makes all I've gone through feel worthless"

[–] phantomwise@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago

Your money is already going going to assholes who don't need to do shit because they just happen to own the company you work at. Why be mad if that money was spread around to people who actually need it instead of just going to a few billionaires? You hate people you consider "lazy" enough that you think they should starve and that it's not worth helping anyone else if it means helping ONE "lazy" person?

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