Im sorry. It can be very hard to leave a toxic relationship if sean isn’t just in pain. It sounds very hard for all of you. I hope sean gets better or david realizes sean can only fix himself.
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It is not your fiancé's job to fix his friend. He seems to angry at your fiancé for no apparent reason. The first thing is knowing WHY Sean is upset, and seeing if his reaction to this question is reasonable at all. If it is not, there's not much to do other than cutting him off. IMO, that friendship has already sunk, because your fiance's friend seem to care significantly more about himself than anything else and trying to appeal to that kind of person is a fool's errand.
I agree, thank you so much 🙏 Apparently he finds David annoying, that’s all I know
Sometimes our thoughts on what a relationship is don't match up with reality. David can't fix Sean, isn't responsible to, and shouldn't try. Neither can you fix David.
Sean sounds narcissistic, it's likely the relationship will fizzle, with time and distance most relationships with narcissists do.
Thanks! I’d proceed with caution, but Sean acts completely the opposite towards me rather than towards David.