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General trans community.

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  1. Follow all blahaj.zone rules

  2. All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.

  3. Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.

Resources:

Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.

Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/

[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination

[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/

[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/

[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/

[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on

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FIVE months on HRT (ah, ah, ah) -- moar boob pls

Caught myself in the mirror the other day: "oh no, I've been going around with some cotton stuck to my face." No, I just forgot to shave for a few days. Laser has really worked magic and left me with almost nothing but hard-to-spot gray hairs. Probably still want to get electrolysis at some point because I can still feel the stubble.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

so busy, omg 😭

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

I’ve been putting off The Cleaning that needed to happen to deal with any ash that potentially got in during the fires, but now that it’s rained it’s made me feel like it won’t be a futile effort, so we did it today. Holy fuck do I feel like my brain is melting out of my ears, I’m so exhausted. You never know how much shit you have until you have to move it all and dust it. We worked for at least 3 solid hours doing nothing but dusting and vacuuming.

And we don’t even have a big apartment! Just a lot of open shelving with knick knacks… as soon as we have the money the first thing we’re doing is replacing everything with shelving that has glass doors. And if that doesn’t keep the dust off, I’m just going full minimalist, lmao.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Mentally/emotionally draining. Minimum 4 more fucking years of this...

Really want to get a different (non-government) job; clearly any reputation of stability isn't there anymore (not convinced it really has been in years), and the pay never was. Had no expectation of ever retiring anyway, so not against draining retirement funds to GTFO and move elsewhere for a new job.