Took it in 2019, and it's been my background since then.
Casual Conversation
Share a story, ask a question, or start a conversation about (almost) anything you desire. Maybe you'll make some friends in the process.
RULES (updated 01/22/25)
- Be respectful: no harassment, hate speech, bigotry, and/or trolling. To be concise, disrespect is defined by escalation.
- Encourage conversation in your OP. This means including heavily implicative subject matter when you can and also engaging in your thread when possible. You won't be punished for trying.
- Avoid controversial topics (politics or societal debates come to mind, though we are not saying not to talk about anything that resembles these). There's a guide in the protocol book offered as a mod model that can be used for that; it's vague until you realize it was made for things like the rule in question. At least four purple answers must apply to a "controversial" message for it to be allowed.
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- No solicitation such as ads, promotional content, spam, surveys etc. The chart redirected to above applies to spam material as well, which is one of the reasons its wording is vague, as it applies to a few things. Again, a "spammy" message must be applicable to four purple answers before it's allowed.
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Lock screen
Unlocked
I took a hike up Mission Peak (Fremont, CA, US) some number of years ago and had to stop 3/4 the way up as it was too muddy, but I got a good shot of the bay and have been using it on my phone since. It also has this weird feature where the lighting on it also makes it look bright but cloudy to dark and stormy depending on screen brightness.
The default. It rotates around.
Picture of my wife.
I managed to fat finger wrong reply to two different comments in this thread, fml
Wish I could actually delete these comments so there wasn't a permanent reminder of my incompetence
But hey, at least I got a reply
Lock screen is just a picture I saw that I liked i don't know who made it
Background is from torment: tides of numenera the changing god looking out at earth year circa 1 million from his space station before the game starts and it gets destroyed with you falling to earth.
I changed the wallpaper once in a blue moon every time I set up a new device, these two from 4 years ago when I first bought the phone.
I always just search "Oled wallpaper" and it usually return somekind of astronout just because of the black element.
On my phone. I lose out on the edges of the image due to the resolution, but oh well.
this wallpaper single handedly made me switch to light mode :P
Picture of what used to be my cat, Henk, sitting upright in a window still looking at the camera mad as hell because he can no longer stretch there due to the new plants.
I have a looping video of the beach, when I was on vacation, and the phone automatically crops it to fit the full screen.
I just find it relaxing to watch during my work breaks and lunches when stressed.
Carl Kolchak, of course! Also, now that I'm retired, this is gonna be my new outfit every day. :)
The first one is a drawing of women kissing, because I love lesbianism and art. The one on my homescreen is my old room.