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When my title changed from web developer to software developer I got a 60% pay increase, but my job hardly changed in reality. I still only make just enough to do doordash on the side as an extra safety net and not as a necessity to afford food.
But when anyone asks what I do for work and I tell them, they immediately assume we're absolutely loaded and I'm picking up the check everywhere we go.
Yup. I do make a fair bit more than the average person, but I have a family, kids, and a lot of experience. I'm far from poor, but I'm not making what people seem to assume I make. I live in a middle-class area, my kids go to publicly funded schools, and I drive reliable, older cars (both ~15yo, will be replacing one soon for something <10yo).
I probably could make $200k+, but I'd have to work crazy hours doing unethical work. As it stands, I'm in the 12% tax bracket, so very much in the middle class, and I choose to make less in exchange for a better work/life balance. Fortunately, my wife doesn't have to work for us to make ends meet, and the same goes for a few of my coworkers (one legally can't because of immigration nonsense). If we both did what I do (my wife couldn't, she doesn't have the formal education or experience for that), we'd be rich, but that's just not the case.
If you don't mind me asking what do you do? I'm always curious since truthfully the $200k/y fang jobs sometime make me think I'm the odd one out who's not gonna retire by 40. And as primarily a perl developer on a team of 2 I feel like were in our own world most of the time.
I'm a team lead at a non-tech company (we manufacture stuff) in a tech division writing primarily in Python and JavaScript.
We pay around the 60-70 percentile for our area, and I work 3 days at home, 2 in the office. We have a really flexible work policy and I just need to leave a note for the team if I take off 1-2 hours during regular work hours (9-4) for an appointment or something. I rarely work more than 8 hours in a day, and if I do, I can take a few hours off the next day (has happened maybe 5 times in the 3 years I've worked here).
There are some negatives though:
But all in all, my boss rocks, pay is decent, and work life balance is pretty much ideal. I'm shooting to retire early-ish, but not crazy early.
I could probably double my salary by working my butt off at a startup or FAANG, but I really prefer where I'm at. I make almost double the local average income, so I'm paid well and live comfortably, but I'm not rich by any stretch.