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Vigils took place across the nation for an Oklahoma teenager who died the day after a fight in a high school bathroom in which the nonbinary student said they were a target of bullying.

Nex Benedict, a 16-year-old who identified as nonbinary and used they/them pronouns, got into an altercation with three girls in an Owasso High School bathroom who were picking on Benedict and some friends. The girls attacked Benedict for pouring water on them, the teen told police in a video released Friday.

Benedict’s mother called emergency responders to the family home the day after the fight, saying Benedict’s breathing was shallow, their eyes were rolling back and their hands were curled, according to audio released by Owasso police.

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[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 48 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

“My call to you is to stand up and make it clear that is what is being done should not be done in your god’s name,” Lorena said. “Stand up and take back your religion from the conservative right.”

This is nonsense. Religion is conservative. Religion is right-wing. It is all about maintaining ancient notions and morality. Shoving modern progressive ideas into it doesn't work.

And if it wasn't for America's fealty to Christianity, Nex Benedict would still be alive.

Edit: Also, one of my daughter's closest friends is trans. Of course, since we're in Indiana, the school refuses to let him use the correct bathroom or locker room and calls him by his deadname despite his own parents calling the school and telling them not to. On Saturday, my daughter told me he got suspended from school. Apparently, a girl was being a bigot towards him and he slapped her. As far as we can tell, the girl didn't get in trouble at all. We told my daughter to tell her friend that we think he did the right thing and are on his side and the school is wrong.

[-] r4venw@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago

I wonder if the concept of religion itself is conservative or if it just attracts that kind of person? My understanding is that most religions' holy texts are effectively just guide books on how not to be a dick to others (not that religious people actually read them that way). I wish someone would do a study to explore this cognitive dissonance in more depth

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago

How not to be a dick to others- based on ancient moral ideas of what that means.

Do you know what Jesus never said? "Do not enslave people." That simple sentence could have saved how many lives? But slavery was fine 2000 years ago, so he never said it.

Which is why religion is conservative.

[-] r4venw@kbin.social 6 points 5 months ago

That's a great point. I was being kind of reductive.

Perhaps religion's most zealous followers tend to be people who have trouble contextualising information? That would certainly help explain why the "I got mine proceeds to pull up ladder " attitude is so prevalent there...
Anyway, I don't want to come across like I'm arguing with you.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

I didn't think you were arguing, no worries. It was just a friendly discussion in my perspective.

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